When Taylor Swift re-released her favourite track “All Too Nicely” as an prolonged 10-minute monitor, she added some significantly devastating strains. Within the new Taylor’s Model, she sings, “And has the bruise of the dual flame dyed you blue?” / Solely between us, has the love affair mutilated you too? Apart from being heartbreaking to ask an ex out, it additionally begs the query: What does Swift imply when she says “twin flame”? In accordance with Tali Edut, one half of The AstroTwins, ELLE’s resident astrologers, there are “a number of colleges of thought” on the subject of the fiery idea and connection to astrology. Edut shares her perception beneath.

What’s a twin flame?

“Our twin flames are our lecturers,” says Edut. “You simply really feel this out-of-body, otherworldly chemistry.” They might seem as a romantic associate, a inventive associate, or one thing like that, however as Edut explains, there is a sense of plain connection, and it is typically that particular person “you simply cannot cease, even should you really feel like you must should.” .” She provides, “I feel Megan Fox was proper about Machine Gun Kelly being her twin flame, as a result of they’re actually dwelling that reality now.”

Twin flame relationships are additionally not for the faint of coronary heart. “For those who simply wish to sit back and have a lighthearted chill relationship, this is not it,” she says. “It is going to be a rollercoaster experience, however it should be thrilling in quite a lot of moments — quite a lot of highs and lows.”

In accordance with Edut, twin flames also can exist as a spirit information. “Generally you do not even incarnate in the identical life.” For instance, if an individual is content material with being single and does not really feel the should be in a relationship, their twin flame could also be with them of their ideas.

How have you learnt in case you have discovered your twin soul?

A very good query, admits Edut. “That is why I feel folks can have a number of experiences with a twin flame.” However if you wish to resolve a selected feeling, she explains that it is a feeling that you simply’re on one path, however after you meet somebody, you all of the sudden take a totally totally different path. “They’ll change the course of your life,” she says. “You attract black and white, after which rapidly it is like Dorothy lands in Oz from Kansas. It is a black and white world for it the place the hell am i?”

How are twin flames associated to astrology?

In accordance with Edut, twin flames typically have astrological charts which will appear troublesome or incompatible, whereas soul mates are prone to have suitable charts “as a result of there’s an ease in the best way you reside collectively.” Since a twin flame is there to be a lesson, you’ll really feel it by that. “You are going to really feel some ache. It forces you to develop.”

Usually, says Edut, she sees twin flames which can be one, three, 5, or six characters aside. “Three indicators aside… you are going to conflict a bit. 5 indicators aside, astrologically you simply don’t have anything in frequent. A plate aside is like neighbors with utterly totally different tastes; somebody likes cheesy out of doors furnishings, and the opposite is Crate & Barrel. It is simply these awkward mashups.

Nonetheless, Edut clarifies that whereas trauma bonds can generally masquerade as twin flame relationships, a twin flame relationship won’t bodily hurt you. “It’s not about torture, torment, abuse. That isn’t a part of it.”

What are different misconceptions about twin flames?

First, you do not have to marry your twin flame, says Edut. “I additionally suppose folks actually get hung up on calling somebody a twin flame. All of us need somebody to be our twin flame, however who the hell actually cares? It is usually a surefire option to chase your twin flame not to search out them, she provides. “You would not take them out of a lineup. They’re going to in all probability shock you and you may say, “Huh? That particular person?'”