"It's not you, it's me."This blog post may get slightly ranty so I'm going to give you fair warning.For the last 7 years of being single, I have worked on myself, I have transformed from someone who was so mortally afraid of being alone that I stayed in an unhappy marriage to someone who's quite happy to spend long periods of time alone.2 years ago (April 2019 to be exact), I became aware of