Without a doubt, giving compliments to your man is crucial to keeping your relationship full of passionate Love.

However, there are “dating coaches” that say complimenting your boyfriend will:

1. Make him take you for granted

2. Make you seem needy and unconfident

What these coaches are saying is not completely false because if you don’t know how to give a good complement, it may have a negative effect on the relationship.

So I’m writing this article for you because I don’t want you to make any mistakes that could otherwise be easily avoided.

Compliment him at the right time

Here’s when you should not compliment a guy:

1. He’s in a terrible mood

2. He’s seriously trying to get work done

3. He’s just trying to get some sleep

4. He’s having fun with his friends

If you compliment a guy when he’s obviously not in the mood to receive it, he’ll think of you as a creep and possibly a stalker!

So when are the best times to compliment a guy

1. When he’s casually studying or doing homework

2. You’re on a date together

3. You’re snuggling in bed together

4. Your hanging out together

5. When he’s doing something impressive (working out, fixing something, etc.)

Occasionally, you can give a compliment out of the blue, but generally speaking, try to keep the compliment relevant to what’s going on.

Compliment him with confidence

So now you know when to compliment a guy, but how do you give the compliment?

It’s pretty simple: the same way you would want a guy to compliment your looks.

Here are some examples:

1. Sound happy

2. Sound confident (without confidence, no compliment works)

3. Smile

4. Wink

5. Hold his hand or caress him while complimenting him

Learning how to give a compliment is more important than the actual words you’ll say, so make sure you get this part right!

Compliment his looks and style

Pretty girls constantly get compliments about their beauty, even if it’s just their profile pic! For example:

1. Has anyone ever told you that you have eyes just like Milla Jovovich

2. You’ve got the biggest smile ever, I’m sure you’re a fun girl to be around

3. There should be a thousand women wish to pay a huge amount to win lips that look like as yours

4. I can’t be sure last time I have seen a girl glowing like you.

But guys rarely get compliments related to their looks, it’s always about what they’ve done or accomplished, such as:

1. Great job

2. You’re such a kind guy

3. Keep up the great work

So be the girl that makes him feel good about the way he looks! Here are few good examples:

1. [randomly] you know what? You have a great sense of style

2. I’m really digging your new hair style

3. Red ties look great on you

4. You have intense eyes

5. Something about your deep voice is so good

6. I love looking at you

7. Your a pleasure to look at

8. Your hair is so cute, I just want to play with it

9. Totally random, but I find your thick eyebrows attractive

10. Your eyes are straight up hypnotic

11. You dress better than 90% of the guys I know

12. Your big arms make me feel so protected

13. Girls get jealous of me because I’ve got such a handsome guy

14. Your cologne is made me think about you all day

15. [play with his beard] I like how it feels in my hands!

Once he hears one of these compliments, he’ll be a bit shocked and will even blush a bit!

Compliment his strength

This is where you really get to flatter him and make his ego twice the size!

A man’s strength is a big factor in what makes him feel masculine.

So by complimenting his strength, you’re complimenting his masculinity which is the ultimate compliment.

Here are some great examples:

1. You must be a dinosaur, you are so powerful!

2. [lightly punch him in the abs then say] nice abs!

3. Can you send me a selfie… with your shirt off?

4. [when your snuggling with him] I feel so safe with you

5. You’re so strong I might as well call you my “beef daddy!”

6. You’re getting too big for all of your shirts and I love it!

You can also compare him to body builders:

1. If you keep working out like that, you’ll be my Arnold

2. Shall I call you Jay Cutler from now on?

3. [In a joking tone] OK, Mr. Colman how many XL hamburgers do you want for lunch?

4. Your muscles are so damn attractive, who are you? Lou Ferrigno?

Side note:

Don’t make your man feel like your protector/ bodyguard all day, it’ll get tiring for him.

Always switch up to different types of compliments whenever you can.

Compliment his intelligence

Guys also like to feel smart and intelligent, so use these praise to make him blush:

1. Your intelligence is sexy

2. I love talking to guys that know what their talking about

3. I’ll never run out of things to talk about with you

No matter what type of boyfriend you have, you can always come up with something good!

Compliment his sense of humor

Unsurprisingly, the best way to compliment a guy’s sense of humor is to genuinely laugh at his jokes!

But here are some other things you could say to flatter your man:

1. Tell me another joke!

2. You’re a witty guy

3. I know this sounds weird, but I love the way you laugh

4. You’re the funniest guy I know

But like I said, laughing at a guy’s jokes (even when they’re not that funny) is the best way to complement his sense of humor.

Compliment his skills and hard work

This is another great way to compliment his masculinity without sounding creepy:

1. I love watching you work hard, it’s so impressive

2. I love your rough hands, when you hold my hands I feel so secure

3. How did you know calloused hands are my weak spot, they are sooo manly

4. I’m glad I have you here to help me

5. I trust your experience and skills

6. You’re my hero; I’d be living in a cave without you!

Compliment his confidence and boldness

Every girl would agree that confidence is what separates men from the boys. Make him feel like a real man by telling him:

1. [look at him in the eyes] You are way more attractive than any guy I’ve dated before

2. I’m so happy to be your girlfriend. How are you so bold?!

3. You’re a total jerk [wink], but I can’t stop thinking about you

4. You are everything a man should be

You can also compare him to other famous people, for example:

1. You are my James Bond

2. You aren’t scared of anything! Who are you? Captain America?

3. Etc.

Summary

When you compliment a guy it can go 2 ways:

1. Good, and he feels even more in love with you

2. Bad, and he feels like you’re just trying to get something from you

But in this article I’ve given you all the tips you need to compliment a guy well, so if you just follow these rules, he’ll be in love with you in no time!

P.S.

And of course, if you’re in bed make sure you compliment his dick!

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