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Life Coach for Teens Virginia
We’ve all seen it and many of us have been through it. Life Coach for Teens Virginia The Teenage Years of rebellion when your innocent child would seemingly start to do the exact opposite of what you would tell them to do. However, this is a weird time for teens as well. Raging hormones, peer pressure, social expectations, and so many other things that go on in a teenager’s life makes them react this way. The real question though is how would you respond effectively to such a situation.
Set the basic principles
Clear boundaries and principles are important during teenage years. This allows the teenager to learn to respect you. Rights and responsibilities go hand in hand. Breaking rules has consequences and follow through with the consequences you set for misbehaviour.
Open Conversation
Having an open conversation on what is going on in your teenager’s life is important. The problems, the pressure, anxiety and day to day struggles. You may hit a brick wall but consistency and openness will eventually open a dialogue.
Be their role model.
Your child is watching you more than they are listening to you. Thus model behaviour. Do what you want them to do. Be what you want them to be.
Encourage good behaviour
Every time they do something that is good and behave in a proper manner, encourage them and let them know that you appreciate it. This will motivate them to improve themselves even more.
Accept that they can make mistakes too.
Not only teens, but all humans make mistakes. To be overly idealistic would be wrong. Be patient with them and encourage them when they make honest mistakes.
Be rational and strategic.
Many times our response to our teen’s defiance can lead to detrimental emotional damage to both sides due to the anger or arguments. What we need here is an effective solution to improve their behaviour not to disrupt ours.
Be in accord with your spouse.
If you are having frequent verbal fights with your spouse, then your teen will think that this is normal behaviour and talk to you in the same manner. Maintain a healthy environment in the house so that this doesn’t happen.
Always remind them how much you love them.
Your teen can be rebellious, they can make mistakes, and they can be very disobedient at times. But at the end of the day, they still love you and you still love them. Always let them know that you’ll be there for them.
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