Looking to keep clients focused on their Therapy objectives? We’ve consulted various professionals, such as Therapists and Coaches, to share their top 10 strategies. From the power of regular reminders to the benefits of involving your support network, these expert tips will guide you in staying committed to your Therapeutic journey.

• Use Constant Reminders
• Take Personal Responsibility
• Expect and Plan for Resistance
• Maintain Consistency With Changes
• Identify Your Motivations
• Remember Your “Why”
• Set Realistic Goals
• Use Journaling for Clarity
• Be Flexible With Your Goals
• Share Your Goals With Loved Ones

1. Use Constant Reminders

Visibility is essential. When creating new habits and goals, the brain needs to be reminded constantly; otherwise, it will revert to what it’s used to (what we know as homeostasis).

I often suggest that clients put reminders on their phones—even setting the alarm to go off periodically during the day—or place notes where they will see them (mirrors, car dashboards, closet doors, or kitchen cabinets).

This works for tangible goals like “meditate for 10 min a day” and concepts your therapist encourages you to be curious about, like “How does my survival strategy of people-pleasing show up in my life now?” Help your brain keep these new goals front and center.

Kristine Galli, LMFT, Revive Counseling and Wellness, LLC

2. Take Personal Responsibility

Staying committed to Therapeutic Goals outside a weekly hour-long therapy session is critical to achieving therapeutic aspirations. One hour a week, where accountability can be solely on the therapist, is insufficient for client goal attainment.

Each client must pursue the discomfort of change in their world by modifying their lifestyle with healthy new habits and challenging unhealthy perspectives, leading to personal growth.

Client growth and resilience nearly always come from emotional discomfort, where that discomfort is an indicator of a positive client therapeutic trajectory. Clients must be communicative and advocate with their therapist about what is or is not working. This way, needs can be met in maintaining commitment.

Last, a client’s challenges did not manifest overnight. Goal achievement will take time, patience, and grace on their path to personal and interpersonal growth.

Adam Ratner, Co-Owner, Supervisor, and Therapist, Grow Wellness Group

3. Expect and Plan for Resistance

Committing to goals can be initially cathartic, but it isn’t easy to maintain over the long term. To be successful, it’s helpful to follow this two-step process:

First, expect to regularly hit an emotional “wall,” during which you feel the urge to give up. Second, plant reminders for yourself throughout your life, highlighting why you committed to this specific goal.

For example, I have a client who has a phobia of driving. He wants to drive so that he can better care for his daughter. So, he printed off small photos of her and taped them to his bathroom mirror, dashboard, phone, bed frame, etc., to serve ‌as a reminder.

This strategy can help you be realistic and transcend your mind’s natural propensity to give up on stuff.

Steven Hryniewicz, Therapist, Pax Therapy Solutions, LLC

4. Maintain Consistency With Changes

The most important tip for staying committed to therapeutic goals is consistency. It’s essential to understand that substantial progress happens gradually over time, achieved through small, consistent steps.

You must build trust and confidence while establishing new, supportive habits to reach therapeutic goals. This rewiring of the brain and the creation of recent stories and neural pathways takes time as it is based on repetition.

Remaining consistent in your efforts helps build commitment over time because, although setbacks and obstacles are inevitable, what truly matters is the ability to return to these goals repeatedly.

Recognizing and celebrating every achievement, no matter how small, helps you stay on course by acknowledging real-life progress that ensures inspired commitment.

Nakita Devi, Breath Therapist and Somatic Coach, Limitless Living Space

5. Identify Your Motivations

As a licensed clinical social worker, I recommend one tip for clients on staying committed to their therapeutic goals: identifying their specific motivations.

The client can keep them written in a journal, listing all the reasons they would like to achieve particular goals and what is motivating them, as well as saying them out loud. Both writing about and talking about them can help clients put them into action.

Jennifer Zator, Mental Health Therapist, Peace and Wellness Therapy Services, LLC

6. Remember Your “Why”

One tip for clients to stay committed to their therapeutic goals is to “remember the why.” Why is your goal important to you? Remembering our “why” and intentionally meeting our goals is important during the therapeutic process.

It can also be helpful to connect your “why” to a value you have. We are much more likely to achieve our goals when we connect them to a value, as living in tune with our values helps our overall mental and emotional health.

Therapy can be tough and difficult at times; it’s not always easy and fun—but remembering our values and “whys” makes that commitment to our goals much more manageable.

Amanda Marks, Psychotherapist, Resilient Counseling

7. Set Realistic Goals

Ensuring they are not unrealistic can help you stay committed to your therapeutic goals. Your therapist will help you assess your therapeutic goals, and it’s important that you, as the client, understand that certain things are unachievable. For example, a goal such as “I want to get to a point where I have zero anxiety ever again” is mostly unrealistic.

As a therapist, how I may help you reframe that goal would be: “I want to gain skills to help cope with and manage my anxiety so that it’s no longer debilitating.” Mindset is everything. It’s about building your therapeutic goals with realistic expectations.

My follow-up tip is to write your goals down, talk about them in therapy, keep reassessing, and be honest about your struggles. It takes time.

Allie Wojcik, Mental Health Therapist, Diversified Health and Wellness Center

8. Use Journaling for Clarity

In my experience, journalism mirrors one’s psyche, reflecting both fleeting emotions and deep-seated patterns. You gain clarity and witness your evolution by consistently documenting your feelings.

This tangible record can motivate you, showing you the peaks and troughs of your therapeutic journey, and revisiting those thoughts later can reveal your personal resilience and growth.

Besides, structured prompts or free-writing can unearth hidden emotions, offering a deeper understanding and commitment to your therapeutic goals.

Bayu Prihandito, Certified Psychology Expert, Life Coach, and Founder, Life Architekture

9. Be Flexible With Your Goals

Staying on course with a therapeutic goal may only sometimes be advisable. Although individuals seek therapy to help achieve a goal they have set for themselves, they occasionally miss the mark. If, for example, someone seeks therapy to “have a good relationship with my mother,” but as the therapy proceeds, it becomes clear that the mother is personality-disordered.

She may be impossible to please, hostile, and argumentative. This new revelation makes establishing or nurturing a healthy relationship impossible. In such a case, the therapeutic goal may be impossible to achieve and harm the client’s welfare.

Setting boundaries and managing interactions with one’s mother may be a more sound aim. At other times, unrelated but important matters may surface during therapy. Exploring those experiences and feelings may be more meaningful and helpful to the patient than adhering to the set goal. Sometimes, adjusting a goal or letting it go completely is more advantageous.

Terri DiMatteo, Licensed Professional Counselor, Open Door Therapy

10. Share Your Goals With Loved Ones

Share your goals with loved ones who can support you and even gently check in on your progress. Accountability helps, but it needs to feel encouraging, not criticizing.

Be compassionate with yourself if you hit roadblocks. Remind yourself that growth isn’t linear, and then reflect on what you’ve learned by examining where things went off track. Getting back on the path takes patience and self-care. With commitment, progress will come in its own time.

Mona Kirstein, Ph.D., Digital Strategist, Holistic Coach and Consultant, The Wholehearted Path

Put These Tips into Action Now!

Now that you’ve soaked up all that expert wisdom let’s simplify things. Time to distill those insights into actionable steps you can start applying immediately.

• Constant Reminders: Set multiple reminders on your phone or sticky notes around your living space. Make them visible and unavoidable.
• Personal Responsibility: Initiate one new positive habit this week, no matter how small. Own your change.
• Plan for Resistance: Identify when you’re likely to resist your goals. Have a motivating photo or phrase ready to look at during that time.
• Consistency: Dedicate specific times in your week to work towards your goals. Consistency beats intensity.
• Know Your Motivation: List three core reasons for pursuing this goal. Keep this list on your phone or somewhere accessible.
• Remember Your Why: Connect your goals to your values. When things get tough, this will be your anchor.
• Realistic Goals: Take a look at your goals. Are they realistic? Reframe any that seem unattainable.
• Journal: Spend 5 minutes every evening jotting down your thoughts. It’s a reflection time that pays off big.
• Flexibility: Life changes; your goals can too. It’s okay to adjust them as you go along.
• Share Your Goals: Tell a friend or family member about your goals. Choose someone who will be supportive, not judgmental.

Implementing These Expert Tips

You’ve heard the experts, now what? To make their advice truly transformative, let’s look at ways to swiftly and effectively implement their recommendations.

Choose Your Top Three Tips

Start by picking the three tips that resonate the most with you. This prevents overwhelm and makes it easier to focus. For example:

• Tip 1: Set Constant Reminders. Create calendar alerts right now.
• Tip 2: Take Personal Responsibility. Write down your commitments.
• Tip 3: Use Journaling for Clarity. Buy a dedicated therapy journal.

Create Mini-Action Plans

For each tip, jot down what “success” looks like and how you’ll know when you’ve achieved it. These can be your benchmarks.

Buddy Up

If possible, share these goals and mini-plans with someone you trust. This adds a layer of accountability and an external perspective.