We’re all damaged survivors.

Each of us has been “pre-punished”.

We are not acting as healthy people do. Our civilization is not as it should be, not in it’s real default condition.

Left alone, our world would be nice.

In our infancy, we can feel the way it should all be.

Is it not obvious that everybody has trauma?

These lives that we all consider normal, are nowhere near the natural environment for humans!

In fact, we are very far from normal!

We have all been through trauma. Life threatening trauma!

We carry PTSD, to various degrees.

People, especially the really young, have powerful needs.

Every and every one of us, has had to do without.

Our most powerful need, outside of basic necessities, has been completely ignored!

If we all sat down together, and planned out how to bring up people to create the most horrible world possible, we couldn’t be doing a better job!

Seriously!

We traumatize each new child, before they are big enough to fight back, because we are determined that we can do whatever we want, and whatever we do, it’s all going to work.

Even with all this trouble, we remain convinced that whatever we do, it must be correct.

The more troubled we become, the more we double down on our belief, that we know how to bring up our young!

We have the right to bring up our children any way we want!!!

It’s our right!

Isn’t it?

Well, surprise, other life has rights too!

The natural right to exist!!

As humans, we do not allow our young to exist!!!

Not as they are! They are allowed to live with us, but only if they become exactly the way, we insist on.

This arrogance comes only from people. That’s why it’s fair to call it arrogance. The rest of the natural world never approaches this level of control, and unfortunate ineptitude.

Ineptitude, because of our insistence on doing things our way, in absolute denial of the trauma we cause. All the while, all around us, are examples of how much better life can be, and we still do not see!

We have the whole world together on this. Everybody is accepting the same horribly destructive belief system. No experts are standing up to announce we need to protect, and stand up for the rights of new life.

Every life has the right to exist.

There was never a problem, until mankind came along, and interfered.

Interfering is fine. When we do that though, we enter a world of cause and effect. What we are doing does indeed have an effect.

Mankind has brought on so much conflict, we will indeed be luck if mankind survives.

When we interfere with natural ways and laws, it would be wise to understand the effects of what we are doing!

Counselling of troubled people has progressed to where we understand that we can relieve the inner stress of troubled people, by allowing them full expression.

Could it be possible that allowing full expression, right through life, might have some benefits?

Yes, that was sarcasm. Please excuse my frustration.

That means we can no longer make our children into what we want!

Now where, on earth, did we ever get the idea we had the right to take over their lives, in the first place.

Their lives are theirs, not ours. If we want to experiment, we are free to do so with our own lives. That’s fair.

Having put this ridiculous attitude of mankind’s on display for everybody to be aware of, we can now turn to some good stuff.

Fixing this one problem fixes the world. We do get the Magic Kingdom we all crave.

In short, this one seemingly small mistake is causing world wide conflict, and chaos! And rightly so! We are traumatizing every new life. Of course there are going to be consequences, and serious ones!

It’s cause and effect. It’s ridiculously easy to confirm. Allow your children to own who they are. Allow their drive to come from within. Respect their direction, identity, and feelings. Prepare to be astonished!

It really is that easy. It really produces results that dramatic.

Defiance instantly disappears. Cooperation becomes normal. Demands become questions. Fun appears. Working together reappears. Anybody who sees any of this, and remains unconvinced, probably also believes the world is flat.

That’s another story. People can need to believe things like that, even in the face of undeniable evidence. Once they have accepted a belief, to ease their own hurt, accepting truth afterwards, returns the hurt. They cannot change their mind, without hurting!

These observations are for another post. They are well explained. Once damage happens, the new situation can take a lot of different forms. That’s a lot to get into.

This blog is clarity-of-innocence.com There are many posts, all concerning these same issues.

Thank you for allowing me into your life, even for this short while. Thank you for your interest.

This post is dedicated to Beck, because she brought a lot of these issues to light, and created the title.

Take care. Good luck on your journey.

Norm Cormier.