Life comes from within!
Nature gives it all the power it will ever need to flourish!
Want to be strong?
Then you need parents who support your own inner drive!
Surprisingly, to everybody who doesn’t grasp the real nature of life, this makes us cooperative, not spoiled!
Life comes from inside. All it wants is to be respected that way!
Spoiled kids are the consequence of never being respected!
This doesn’t come from a lack of discipline!
The Perfect Environment!
Just look at nature. Every life gets support in finding their own way, all under their own power!
This process also makes life the most cooperative and the most loving!
There are a few movies that point this out! “The Gods Must be Crazy”, Parts One and Two show this balance, as well as “Nim’s Island”!
These stories may be fiction, but when children are treated in this manner, that’s exactly what you get!
CONFLICT!
What’s so special about a supportive way of life?
No conflict!
What brings us down every day? What makes us tired? What makes us feel like life isn’t worth living?
That never-ending conflict!
Want to feel good every day?
Get rid of the conflict!
How?
Allow other life to power itself!
That’s all it wants to do!
That’s what it’s designed to do!
Why would we waste our lives and energy fighting against that natural need?
We have no chance at all of ever succeeding!
Life Comes From Within!
Why would we pick a fight with nature and force obedience on life that only wants to find its own way?
Why would we try to change what cannot be changed, and then live in never-ending misery trying to accomplish the impossible?
Why would we do that? The cost is ever-increasing Conflict until we have invented war!
At the same time, nobody wants to cooperate! Why?
Because they tried that, and it was never enough!
Giving up their identity and taking orders was the only thing that pleased those around them!
Why have we done this?
WHY?
Because we cannot feel our instincts any more!
Instead, we listen to bad advice!
Considering the obvious results, I don’t understand why we continue with methods that clearly don’t work!
Rather than finding ways that work, we seem to double down on the very same methods that don’t work!
WHAT WORKS?
Respect works!
Human rights work!
Apply these right from the very beginning, before success or resentment confuse the issue, and peace breaks out!
Then we all get to keep our identities and our instincts!
It really is that simple!
We have taken the most loving creatures on the planet, and made them miserable and warlike!
We have done it to ourselves!
All for what?
To get our own way?
Thanks for listening!
Good luck on your own journey!
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Take care,
Norm Cormier
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