Life comes from inside!
It has to!
It’s designed to do that! All life is, and all other life always does live from within!
We have turned our parenting from our Instincts, to the beliefs of others!
That’s what did it!
That alone turned us from supporting each other into conflict with each other!
The only reason we would ever even consider doing that is if our own self-esteem has been shattered!
The result is a generation who cannot feel their own needs! What could go wrong?
They get left without a sense of value, purpose, or direction.
We then live in a dizzying array of ideas that have no chance at all of ever bringing us comfort or happiness.
Our needs!
We need the inner peace, comfort, security, and good will that comes from one place, and one place only!
Our own identity! Our feelings. Our instincts. Our overwhelming need for the approval and acceptance of others.
Our inner world
People fully connected with their inner world have built-in values. This is the source of trust and love!
Want to love yourself? It can only come from here, and it comes naturally!
These values are all about cooperation, responsibility, compassion, and empathy.
The rewards are joy, love, being loved, absolute trust, and never ever being alone!
Natural humans are lovely!
We are leaving these things further behind with every new generation! We shouldn’t!
The only source of happiness has always been our own inner world. Money won’t do it!
Our only source of love, or ever being loved comes from our instincts and feelings!
Following the rules
As we follow the rules we abandon our human values and accept the cold inflexible beliefs of other people!
The results are frantic action, feelings of emptiness along with a lack of purpose, enough despair to traumatize society, and lots and lots of conflict!
Suicide is rising, and rightly so! Without our inner values, life really has little purpose, if any!
Why did this happen?
This process of leaving our inner worlds behind probably began long ago when someone listened to the advice of others instead of their own instincts.
Unfortunately, when we follow the advice of others, the self-esteem of our infants cannot survive its abandonment, causing more of us that eventually seek advice!
The process “snowballs”!
As it grows, it takes our civilization to progressively worse places!
Trust erodes! Conflict grows! Comfort, genuine happiness, and joy disappear!
We all hurt!
We seek therapy. We all want more self-esteem!
Why?
We are disconnected from our identities, meaning our feelings, our needs, our instincts, and most of our all-around awareness within and externally!
This is no life for those of us who never did anything wrong to ever deserve this!
Therapy!
What is it?
Its an attempt to live and express our real selves!
We do it through revealing ourselves!
I believe most will accept that we didn’t start out our lives being secretive and troubled!
This is something that happened to us!
Life comes from within!
All other life supports it in its efforts!
People need to relearn to do that as well.
If we listen to our instincts, those of us that can, we get cooperative helpful, happy children! Defiance doesn’t exist!
That’s because what we do now is unnatural. We are supposed to support life, not derail it!
Refusing to support the efforts of each life itself, actually results in damage.
The difference in health demonstrates that beyond any doubt! The complete absence of any need for therapy helps as well!
As things stand right now, we cause our young to have to leave their inner lives behind, and their self-esteem along with it!
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Good luck on your own journey,
Take care,
Norm Cormier
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