We try to fix the abuse of the innocent by punishing the oppressors.
This should make a better world.
But, it doesn’t!
We can never catch up!
There is a reason why we can’t.
It’s because we haven’t recognized or targeted the actual source of the abuse!
For many generations we have watched our civilization deteriorate, fixing one issue after another, and still watching life get worse!
We watch some men control the people around them. We see how wrong this is. We try to stop it.
No matter how much we fix, more control of others just keeps coming.
We watch people steadily becoming more hostile and insensitive in other places. We pass laws protecting the helpless.
Life continues to get progressively more frustrated and aggressive.
Why?
We cannot succeed until we recognize and target the source!
What’s the source!
Peace and compassion come from within! All normal life comes from within!
Everything good comes from our inner worlds!
Even our instincts carry the accumulated Wisdom from all of mankind’s existence.
Our identities crave acceptance, trust, and cooperation!
Love and peaceful life just always come from our inner core!
That’s who people really are!
When we don’t allow people’s inner core to run their lives, we lose all that compassion!
Our loss of the natural right to live from our own identity is the source!
INFANT LIFE
Our Infants begin life, living from their inner world!
All life is supposed to live from its identity!
If we support the inner world and drive of our infants, they turn out to be compassionate and loving adults!
That’s because they are living from their inner wisdom and drive! They will be Healthy.
But, we aren’t letting them do that!
We stop all expressions of their inner life in infancy!
What, do you suppose, that might change?
We substitute our values, insisting they live from our beliefs!
Our beliefs do not carry the wisdom of the ages, or the craving for acceptance and trust that we all start out with!
Our beliefs cannot satisfy their needs!
It is foolish to believe that could work!
Our ideas of guidance are usually a reaction to our own hurt.
There is no way our guidance is going to fix anything!
It will usually make things horribly worse, and that’s what’s been happening for a long time!
THE SOURCE OF BEHAVIOR!
All life has wisdom!
It comes from within!
When we encourage other life to live from within, we get natural life!
In the case of humans, we get the most loving creatures on the face of the planet!
When we stop life from living from within though, we get chaos!
All our wisdom comes from inside.
All we have to do is let it!
All we have to do is allow our young to develop from their own internal energy!
This way they get to keep their inner power, which we call self-esteem, and also keep their inner wisdom and compassion!
Also, all the adults will be healthy!
When we become forced to live from the wishes of others rather than our own inner drive, we are very far from healthy!
These days, we can’t even feel our own feelings!
HEALTHY ADULTS
Healthy adults live from their own inner world!
They are loving and kind.
That’s who people really are, if we allow their pristine condition to survive!
They build loving, responsible communities!
This is what we need back!
Attempting to guide our young, in any way at all, takes us away from that!
They’re powered from within by an identity already fixed at conception!
Our attempts to interfere with that can only cause damage, and it does!
Only the inner world of each child understands its own needs.
We can’t compete with that, and we will never be able to!
Our infants understand themselves! We don’t!
Support them and we get love!
Suppress their efforts to manage their own needs, and we get chaos!
We have been choosing chaos, and that’s what we got!
Damage
When we can’t feel our own feelings, it’s because we have been hurt.
We all started out being able to feel them, and we should still be able to!
When we can’t, we have suffered some degree of internal disconnection!
That’s why life isn’t joyful for us anymore!
The greatest pleasure we can ever generate for ourselves is to get some of this connection back!
If we can get every human back to living from the drive of their own inner world, as all life does, we have fixed every problem the world has in the process!
The world’s problems come from the way we treat our infants!
That’s the source!
That’s why we can’t fix anything by punishing the behavior of aggressors. They are already victims of being somewhat disconnected from their own inner world.
It’s not their fault they behave as they do!
Punishing aggressors has no chance of ever fixing any trauma that was caused to them in their early years!
Civilization, and our own health all begin and end with the support, of the lack of support for our infants!
Mankind doesn’t have an evil side at all!
We just keeping making this same mistake, and each time we do it, the consequence is evil in some form!
Thanks for listening,
Good luck on your own journey!
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Take care,
Norm Cormier
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