but if you really love someone, distance won't matter because you'll do everything in your power to make it work.
It's been one year, six months and counting since the day I first met my husband. He's in Canada and I am here in the Philippines. We got married last December. He Left and then came back last March. We are so happy together. We always find ways how to make every second count. We used to do road trip adventures together and lots of beach get-away. It is always a fun experience and there was never a dull moment with him. We're alike in so many ways and we just want to get lost anywhere we go. That's love. That's life. Contented and Happy.
But what is life after that togetherness. When you know that he will soon be away and all that's left with you are the good memories? I can't believe that I would feel empty when he went away the first time. I thought I am strong and will never show myself "needy". But I was wrong. It sunks deep down my spine and all that's left for me to ease the paint is to cry myself to sleep. It went on for days. I'm just so weak I even cried in front of my mum while we were having dinner.
To many, this may sound a little dramatic. I agree with you. I find this a bit weird on my part since all my life I've been trying not to overly exagerate things. But this is one thing I've learned about myself that no matter how tough you may think you are, at some point your emotional side will always find a way to kick in. That would hurt. That would really hurt.
For this reason, I would like to share with you a Free LDR (Long Distance Relationship) Guidebook which I found to be very helpful on how to make LDR work. I personally think that Loving from a distance will just make the relationship even stronger because it builds qualities that strengthens the bond with your other half like: LOVE, TRUST, COMMITMENT, RESPONSIBILITY and LONG SUFFERING.
This guidebook was created by Michelle, a founder of LovingFromADistance.com who have been in LDR since 2006. This is freely given for download on her page, so this is freely shared for you as well. You can download it for free on this page at the bottom of the PDF presentation. Just look for this icon:
I hope you'll like it as much as I do as this was very helpful to me. <3
Free Ldr eBook
