Michael
Upon dissolution of any marriage in the initial start of the of the Family Law matter I will look at five areas of the relationship, which is;
- chores
- duties
- finances
- parenting
- romance
Which would be vacations, church time, time together, dinner dates with other couples, also I would separate and bifurcate out the physical relationship in the romance. So that leaves five areas and I determined that there is no fault, then I would recommend generally a very fast divorce. Although sometimes one party necessarily has more education and more money than the other so there may be a still a prolonged fight, but when you have a situation we have fault based divorce which could be adultery or could be Cruel Treatment then you’ll look at the above 5 arears. It’s called the power and control wheel which is very patriarchal in the sense that it’s applied in a patriarchal relationship. Although I’ve used it in same-sex relationships and I’ve also used it in situations where you have a very career-minded woman and and I’ve used it successfully both offensively and defensively with men and women in same-sex couples.
So what you will want to do is if you have Cruel Treatment that is part of your family law matter. That cruel treatment may be in the form of protective orders, police being called out during the relationship, perhaps some criminal charges, a bankruptcy. You’ll take these factors which are intimidation, coercion and threats, male privilege, economic abuse, using children, minimizing, denying, blaming, isolation and economic abuse. You will attempt to apply these elements that make up this wheel to your case to explain your story to the factfinder which would be a judge or jury both for your property rights but then also for decision-making for your children.
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