Relationships take a lot of work but remember that while they aren't supposed to feel job its still going to take a great amount of effort. Don't get lazy in love and don't settle for a lazy in love type of partner.

Don't just vaguely demand 100% of the effort to be put into the relationship by both parties, EXPECT IT! Make it a prerequisite. Quickly let them know that its a take it or leave it type of offer. Love for love. Loyalty for loyalty. No lazy lovers allowed.