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Common stereotypes or myths about women in everyday life;

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Introduction:

This world is made equally for all humans whether a male or a female, a male being a businessman or jobless, a female houswife or a working independent woman. We as a viewers have made some stereotypes regarding every single category of them. If a woman is single, then why she is single, if she is married then why she's not having a kid till now. If she is married & having a kid then we'll say that still her family is incomplete. If regarding family she is complete then we'll say see how lucky she is or how eagerly she wanted to have all this. We as an "Evil" viewers cannot  become happy with anyone's life. The reason can be people's growing patterns, mental condition & sometimes we women gave such people a place to speak like all this. These things sometimes becomes very harmful to one's mental health. People should do their own work rather then pointing someone else's life. So some basic stereotypes will be memtioned in this article & what should we do to stay away from them. Let's start:


1. Sexism ( The main reason):

Sexism is prejudice based on one's sex or gender & it affects women and girls.  People didn't even know about this term"Sexism", but all they are doing is this only. Unknowingly, they keep pointing towards this and it held in domestic violence. Domestic Voilence is tolerated and even legally accepted in many parts of the world. Honour killing is there & Dowry deaths happen, the women who are unable to pay the high dowry price for their marriage. But no one speaks here on these topics. They just only point out on women. This is "Sexism" the main reason of all the stereotypes related to women.


2. Single & doing nothing:

First of all, these stereotypes starts when a child is born. I mean now people will decide that what should we do and what not in our life. At some places when a girl is born relatives decide that whom she will get married to & when will she get married. I mean like seriously, what if she couldn't make up to 5 years or many other problems? Next when she grow up everyone has a problem that why the hell is she studying. She should get married, have children, enjoy her life & make her life easy. The inner self of them also knows that we can't "Enjoy" after getting married or "Easiness" of life doesn't depends on marriage. When she is grown up to a certain age i.e. 20 above, & she is doing nothing. That's her life. Maybe she wanted to set her aim, she wanted to think that what step should she take next. But even with this people have problems.


3. At age '30' she becomes old "Buddhi":

People believe that after age '30', woman become "Buddhi" & no one will marry her. Their life starts at marriage & ends at that too. I have only question to ask here. She is a human like you, so she will get old, but who are you to even suggest anything? Basically, parents have no problem at all with their daughters, "Others" involved in a story ruin everything.


4. Married & working women:

Some women wanted to get married at early age, wanted to have kids at early age & also wanted to become a working women at the same age. So what, this is her life, she will be the restless, she will become weak, she will face the repercussions & in all this there is nothing to with you'll. So why are you so much interested to suggesst anything. Actually, they are not suggessting anything. They wanted us to do everything they want. Some people also think that they are jelous with their own husband that's why they are working. I literally want to kill that type people. They just spoil a happy going life.


5. Single & working women:

People believe that a single & working women is so much obsessed with herself & money that she don't need anyone in their lives. Maybe something is wrong with her or her upbringing is like that. She is single so is unable to make room for other in her life. Single women are self obsessed and selfish. She is too picky, lonely, insecure, she havn't grown up yet, over-educated bi**hes & what else is left.


6. People that make such stereotypes/ misconception:

These are some of the assumptions or misconceptions or stereotypes about women. These are from all the people that cannot resist people more than them or they wanted to have some spices in their lives. Their lives are literally on fire & they are talking about others. I have many people in front of me doing all this & I literally pity them all. Such people don't have heart because they didn't know what will their bad remarks make an affect on our hearts.


7. What should we do (Basically a suggesstion): 

If I have to give my opinion, then it is that we shouldn't care about such people too. Because such people wull be everywhere & we cannot stop their mouths. So only we can do is that we should just do what we want to. We shouldn't get bothered by them & we should be so head-strong that everyone will have a fear before pointing such things towards us. It doesn't mean that we should be harsh in our langauge. Sometimes, a little but true thing can work easily. 

On other important thing is that we should teach our children(daughters) to become strong enough to face such things from early age. So that they shouldn't become mentally ill, when they grew up & face all this suddenly.


8. Conclusion:

This article is about the stereotypes about women. Whether she is married, single, jobless or having a job, kids or not. She has to face certain problems in this world. So she should ignore all this because as no one can block our voices similarly we also cannot block their's too. The only way is to become too strong to be bothered by them.


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