Hi there, Welcome back to the blog!
Let’s talk about marriage proposals here, shall we? Lately we have read and seen a lot of proposals everywhere online and offline. It’s a beautiful scene to watch, I like the part where the guy kneels on one knee and says “Will you Marry Me” and the Lady goes “Awwww, Yes! Yes! Yes!
So Beautiful!!!!!
Now my elder sisters Ayo Thompson(she does not know I’ve claimed blood relationship yet.lol) of 1+the one and Atilola (she's married now) engagement story made me love struck. I was reminded of my
childhood dream of happily ever after………..*off to Cinderella world, where my prince comes with my Shoe and my feet fits perfectly* lol.BTW: Guys why don’t you guys try proposing with a shoe, the lady whose feet fits into the shoe will be your bride. Make sure she is not with a shoe pad oh. Lol.
Now the thing is why will a lady refuse to say Yes to a proposal?.
In another video a guy proposed to his bae at the airport and she was so reluctant to say Yes. Infact she didn’t even say Yes, after 5 minutes of hiding her face she gave out her finger and just walked away.
No hugs, No yells, No kiss, Nothing………………………..
Kai!
Could it be that the guy offended her and didn’t fix things?
Could it be that the lady just does not find him good enough to be her husband??
I sincerely think that before you build a house, you should count your cost.
Guys, proposal is not a trap. Don’t show up with a ring and expect that all the harsh treatments would be ignored and she will just yell a Big YES to you.
Communicate with your girlfriend, you should know when she is ready, talk about marriage and see how she responds, then you make a move.’
Understand that not all ladies like public display of affections and would love over a dinner-kind- of-proposals OR just family members around. Talk about proposals and be sure what she wants. If she wants A and you offer her B, do you think she will appreciate it?
I repeat proposal is not a bait.
And Ladies, c’mon what are you doing with a guy you have no interest in? Why invest your time and energy into another human being without definitions.
I’m not saying you should go all over him and play detective but you will know if he is serious with his life, hence serious with yours.
A guy who has no plan for his life, won’t accommodate you in his life. So drop it and be open to more serious minded guys.
If you date a guy for more than a year and he has no plan, no definitions or hasn’t said anything yet……..DUMP HIS ASS!!!
*drops mic*
Let's Share: Ladies: If your engaged or married, share with us how you handled your proposal? Was it all you dreamt of? Or you grudgingly said Yes?? Lol
Guys: What are the signs that she is ready?? What will you do if she says No?? Are you in a relationship with a person you can marry??
XOXO
