I'm a Charming dude. I'm disliked by many, but when you get me one on one I'll always win you over.
It's just a fact.
A few months ago I walked into a bar where every girl hated me. Thought I was the evilest dude on the planet. When I walked out of that bar they were all on my side.
My job is such that I need to be able to convince people they want things. And I am really good at my job. I've been lucky, in that I tend to sell stuff that is actually good, and matters.
But that doesn't change a central fact.
I am amazingly charming. What do I do about that?