When a couple breaks up, both the parties are responsible for it, no matter how many shares of guilt they have in damaging the relationship. It’s not easy to understand the opposite sex but it’s definitely something that can be worked upon.

These mistakes are ingrained in their habits and don’t seem like mistakes at all. The hard truth is, these actions are the real reasons which ward off men. If you read our list carefully, you will be surprised to find how certain actions you have been doing actually affect your relationship.

(1)  You have to give him space:

I understand you love being with him. But if you follow him everywhere, it will become claustrophobic. Loving someone doesn’t mean you should be with him 24*7. Let him work on his own and have fun on his own. Respect his interests and life. Try to focus on spending quality time together rather than asking him to meet every single day. Give him space. If he truly loves you, he will come back to you at the end of the day.

(2) If he’s meant to go, he will:

Accept the truth! If a man is meant to leave, he will eventually. You can’t force him to be with you. Nagging him continuously by telling him not to go will not help. Accept it and move on.

(3) If he wants to cheat, he will:

So your man is a cheater. He enjoys dating other Women. How many of his girlfriends are you going to meet and how many times are you going to charge him? It doesn’t help at all. If a man is a cheater, he will cheat and eventually leave you. So, you should better take the call first.

(4) Fantasizing the idea that you two are together:

You might really like him; you must get swept over by the way he greets you or compliments you. It might even occur that you two had sex with each other and it was just casual for him. You have to stop fantasizing that you two are together. Be practical. If you are confused about his feelings, ask him directly. If he is not serious about you, he will eventually run away.

(5) Don’t try to change him:

You might not like certain things about him but that doesn’t mean you have to change him. What if he tries to do the same to you? Would you like it? Obviously, not! Love him the way he is.