Boys enjoy stories too.

Take to heart the following facts: 

• It's a myth that men just want to their wand played with.
• There is a deeper need to have a good story involving a family and a place to call home.
• There is something cozy about a good story. Not only for women but for all human beings.
• The loss of story means that we've lost the process of love. 
• The roots of love are cut off by a pornographic culture. 
• Men used to work to see a nude woman. The fact that we're able to generate our fantasies with AI is an extinctionary event.

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Women often complain that there aren't any good men around. Here Women are  mostly right. If there is one question we must ask ourselves, it's how can we change that?

To begin with reality is always the first step. 

Let us assume for the sake of argument, that women deserve to be worked for. There is no value in hitting on a woman with an object of getting something from her. If your goal is to see a woman naked, you've lost the point of romance. The point is the process. And the process can only unfold as a surprise. We're supposed to woo the women. Maybe this is why women are called "woo"-men in the first place. Okay, that's unlikely but maybe there's some synchronicity to that. Maybe not.

But wooing comes secondary to something else: Our life's work.

Let's use a good story as our starting point for our thought-experiment: Let's use Harry Potter. Imagine a world where Hogworts was just a cheap strip club. Imagine what would happen if the only purpose was for Harry to get his kicks with the most beautiful women in the school. Imagine he used his magic to carouse and get the better of women against their will. 

In that case, the walls would soon begin to crumble. The magic would end. The place would become a hell, a wasteland and everything that glows would be replaced with darkness and sleeze. And in the corner somewhere, Harry would be grasping on with all his might to keep his little fantasy going: Hermione wearing only a red ribbon around her neck on her pale white skin, tied under a Christmas Tree. She'd have nothing else on.  

Harry would work so hard to keep Sirius Black and all cohorts of Voldemort at bay, but eventually they'd use his morals against him. They'd invite him over to their side. 

So I have a question for all the men out there: If the internet is Hogwarts, and if the world is the world as it is, then what are you doing for the world? Are you contributing to the death of magic? Or are you working towards a world where Hermione is under the Christmas tree willingly? Are you using your charm and magic to woo women for their sake or for yours?

And let's not be a prude about this. If Hermione one day decided she wants to be tied up, if Harry deserved this reward of seeing her with nothing on but a red ribbon around her neck, if they were doing a bit of fantasy play about Harry being a bad boy, well that's no problem. In fact, it's probably amazing. It's probably a really great thing to do around Christmas. 

Just make sure you've done your bit for Hogwarts, and that you really deserve it. Sometimes the easy availability of flesh makes it impossible to appreciate what a deep gift it is to see a woman in all her glory. It's the universe bearing itself before you. Don't be an ingrate. Start a family with her. Stick with her, and build the many stories of your own hogwarts rather than the dingy strip-club version where Voldermort wins.