Lingam Massage (for men)
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In Sanskrit, the male sexual organ is called Lingam, which in direct translation means “wand of light”.
The tendency of the Lingam massage is to create a state of relaxation and pleasure for the recipient. The purpose of this massage is to massage the Lingam (penis), also the testicles (scrotum), the perineum, and the man’s sacred point (equivalent to the woman’s G-spot) – the prostate, and to allow the man to “surrender” to the face a pleasure he was not used to. From this perspective, both partners relax during the massage.
Men must learn to relax and receive because they are used to doing and placing importance on the end of a sexual act. This type of massage allows the man to experience his delicate and receptive side, leaving aside the traditional male perspective.

Preparation

Take a relaxing shower or bath, give yourself as much time as possible, and breathe deeply. Consciously, a relaxing breath will help you free your mind, and you will become much more receptive to feelings. Relax your abdomen and get rid of the tension that we all normally have in that place.
Go to the bathroom before the massage, because the best results are obtained if the bowels are empty.
Leave aside your thoughts, worries, and problems and connect emotionally with your partner through hugs, kisses, and glances, reaching a state of relaxation and trust.

The beginning of the massage

Have your partner lie on his back, with a pillow under his head, so that he can look at you. Put a pillow covered with a towel under his hips. His legs must be apart, with the knees slightly bent (try to put two pillows, and under the knees, and it will be more relaxing) and the genitals must be clearly exposed in front of you. Before touching his body, start with relaxing, deep breaths.
Start by massaging the legs, abdomen, thighs, chest, and nipples to relax your partner. Remind him to breathe deeply and sink into a state of relaxation as much as possible.
Put a small amount of lubricant on the penis (Lingam) and testicles. Start by lightly massaging the testicles, carefully, because it is a very sensitive area, then gently massage the scrotum, relaxing it. Then go up, above the penis, massaging the area of the pubic bone.
Massage the perineum, the area between the testicles and the anus.
Take your time massaging the glans and vary the speed and pressure, then squeeze the base of the Lingam with your right hand, pull up and let go, alternate with your left hand, take your time, give it all the time, try to move your hand gently both the left and the right.
Then change direction, this time squeezing the glans of the penis and pulling down. Again, alternate hands left and right.
Then massage the glans of the penis, as if you were using an orange juicer (circular movements). Massage around the glans and the base of the penis. In Tetra (Sacred Sexuality) there are many nerve endings at the level of the Lingam that correspond to other parts of the body. It is believed that many ailments and diseases can be cured by a good penis massage.
During this massage, the penis can relax, but it shouldn’t cause you problems, it will harden in place. You will probably notice that the Lingam will strengthen, relax, strengthen again, etc., creating a very pleasant experience, its vigor and softness being the two ends of the spectrum of pleasure offered by this massage.
If the sensation of ejaculation appears, stop for a while, allow the penis to relax and the sensation of ejaculation to disappear. It is important to take into account the fact that the purpose of this massage is not ejaculation, and men can learn the art of mastering and controlling ejaculation, by stopping the stimulation, once the sensation of ejaculation appears.
Deep breathing is the key to success, helping to reduce the sensation of ejaculation. The eventual mastery of ejaculation will allow him to make love as long as he wants and become multi-orgasmic without losing even a drop of semen. Orgasm and ejaculation are two different things that can be learned separately, the result being the expansion of sexual life.

The Sacred Point

Found and massage the man’s sacred point, which is a small depression the size of a pea, located between the testicles and the anus.
Be gentle and press inside, he may feel a little pressure inside at first and may be a little uncomfortable at first. But, after that, he will be able to prolong his orgasm and control his ejaculation. You can massage his penis with your right hand, and this point with your left.
Try to press lightly on this point, when he gets close to ejaculation, causing him a special pleasure.

Completion of the massage

When he feels “done” (due to the massage), gently move your hands to the side, take him in your arms and cover yourself and, most importantly, let him relax for at least 5–10 minutes.

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