Depression And Anxiety In Men Caused By Toxic Partners
Each year Abuse against men goes unheard and swept under the rug by their Female partners.
However, when their male partners abuse females, this receives a great deal of press and news (which it should rightly get).
Abuse against anyone should be reported and should be voiced so that the victim can get their justice and stop their abusers from hurting them or anyone else.
Sadly, for most guys whom their female partners abuse, this is rarely an option.
Guys are made to feel like they are not MEN ENOUGH for letting their girls treat them with no respect.
This social stigma that a guy must be a Beta Male for not keeping his girl in line is truly one of the most disgusting stereotypes that society keeps on perpetuating.
Hitting a woman…a female…never feels right, and for any girl to even want her guy to hit her to keep her in line needs some type of psychological evaluation.
But just as hitting a female is not right, so too is a grown woman hitting a man because of a disagreement.
Violence not only ever solves anything, but it only shows the lack of emotional resolve that a person has, and as a result, it creates a nasty dynamic.
It can be challenging for men to deal with females like this because she can hurt herself and blame it on him the instant he decides to leave.
It is not uncommon for many of these females to block the doorway so that a guy can’t leave so that he can touch her, and she can use that against him.
In this article, I want to express why depression and anxiety in men are rising and some of the root causes of these mental illnesses in men.
Abuse can happen to ANYONE.
And the only way to stop abuse is through awareness.
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Depression And Anxiety In Men Caused By Toxic Partners
1 – “I’ll Call The Police On You”
As shown in the video above, these toxic nasty females have no problem brutalizing themselves and then blaming it on the guy who doesn’t want to be with her anymore.
The scary thing about this and why it builds up so much anxiety and depression in guys is how easy society looks at the female to be the victim.
And many of these narcissistic toxic females are very aware of their victim hood status. They know how to pretend to be a victim and do so with great persuasion.
In their twisted, deranged minds, they will position the guy in a situation so that he must push her or stop her from hurting herself, and when he does that, he has placed himself in her narrative for the police to take him away.
The “Crazy Girlfriend” title that guys gives to these types of females is not without reason.
Many of these females will toss themselves in front of a guy’s car and say he tried to run her over.
2 – They Will Ruin A Guys Life
Toxic people, male or female, will work day and night to destroy the life of the person they hate.
It becomes an obsession for them, and because they lack emotional regulation and empathy, it consumes their every waking hour.
These people are like reptiles, they focus only on their survival, and in this case, the thing they are trying to keep alive is their egos.
So when a guy no longer “loves” or wants to be with these toxic females, she takes that as you try to kill her or remove her from reality.
These types of people are not playing with a full deck, and they do not see the world for the way that it is; they see it as how their unregulated emotions paint it out for them.
This is why they cannot handle rejection easily or a guy dumping them. It is killing their ego, and that makes them act insane.
Now anxiety for men start to increase because these females will show up at their job making a scene, they will begin to harass the new girlfriend and even threatening her (I know this from personal experience), they will start calling at all hours of the night, they will stalk the guy and wait for an opportunity to get harmed by him (jump in front of your car), they will call and say they are taking pills and are trying to kill themselves.
These people will do some insane things just to get our attention.
They Will Try And Get Us Fired From Our Jobs
It is not beneath these people to tell lies about us and spread rumors to our boss or co-workers to discredit who we are as men.
If they can get us fired from our jobs, in their minds, they are taking away of livelihood, as the job helps us to live financially wise.
And this becomes a heck of a lot easier for them, when you have or do work with them.
More the reason, I champion being your own boss and working online, as there is so much more freedom that one can have and so much more peace.
They Will Start Attacking The New Lover In Our Life
These people are like kidults or animals. They perceive that we love someone else as a sign that they will never be loved again.
Jealousy is their middle name. They are the embodiment of what jealousy is, and as a result, they will take things to the next level.
These females will even attack the new lover just for being with us, despite her never doing anything.
In their twisted minds, they see her as stealing us away from her, and that is a massive no-no in their kidult minds.
This video best illustrates how they behave and how they feel.
They Will Start To Stalk And Harass
I mention that these people are kind of like demons, in the sense that they become possessive, and you can see it in their eyes—that stare of hatred and just absolute consumption (they want to devour us).
Toxic females will stalk us and harass us.
And what makes this so hard for many guys is because again of the stigma. If we say we feel threatened by her stalking us, or dare say she is harassing us, all we get is “Man Up, P*ssy.”
They Will Try And End Their Lives
This is easily one of the things that make anxiety in empathic males so high. The idea that they will take pills and overdose because we are not with them is ABUSE on such a massive scale.
This is psychological abuse, and they know it, and they also know that most people would not even listen to our side of the story.
That victim badge they have really does wonders for their narrative.
And as an empathic male, we don’t want that on our shoulders or our heart.
They imprisoned us in their lives by threatening that they will end their lives, which causes severe bouts of anxiety and depression because of feeling helpless.
Calling the police only gets them to behave as if they are rational and sane people, and it paints us out as the insane ones.
They know how to flip the script and do so with a performance that would make Academy Award Actors envious.
3 – Narcissistic Toxic Females Will Take A Life
I mentioned earlier that these people, toxic people, are like reptiles. And this is true.
Toxic narcissistic females are like T-Rex, and if you didn’t know, they were more dangerous and deadlier than the male counterpart.
Why they are so dangerous is because of the victimhood status they have when it comes to abuse.
They know how to play the victim and will use that.
They will hire someone to take their ex’s life because of him MOVING ON, and will even try and take the life of the new lover in his life.
These people are so possessive, like an animal and, in some cases, like a demon.
They will genuinely call out a hit on someone and then pretend that they knew nothing about it.
Ghost These Females ASAP
If the video above did not make you shake, this one will most definitely do so.
This is why it is so IMPORTANT to ghost these females and move as far away as you can from them.
Final Thoughts
Abuse against men has to have more awareness.
Yes, women get abused more times than men, but that does NOT justify the abuse that GOOD MEN go through n a DAILY BASIS.
Good men, just like good women, need to have a healthy relationship where their partner supports them and not abusing them.
If you find that you have no one to talk to and that you need that psychological support and even emotional support, I highly recommend speaking to a therapist.
Therapy can help strengthen your psyche and get all of what is weighing down on your chest off.
You need not fight this battle alone anymore.
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