What Do Narcissists Do When You Ignore Them
For many of us who have been hurt by narcissistic people, we look for some kind of closure or understanding on their part.
We want them to understand that all we did was love them, and we look for a reason why they hated us so much.
When reconciliation is not an option, the next best thing can be Revenge. And although I do not advocate for revenge, I do believe that we can get our justice.
Revenge is not the best thing to seek with a narcissist, or anyone for that matter, as it only fuels their go and gives them a sense that they are important.
Above all things, Narcissists love feeling like they are important. They love feeling like they have power over others, and when they can control people emotionally, they are on top of the world.
With female narcissists, this is doubly true.
Revenge is not the way to deal with a narcissist; but justice is.
In this article, I want to explain what do narcissists do when you ignore them and how this is the best type of justice that we can give to them.
What Do Narcissists Do When You Ignore Them
Imagine for a second how you felt when you went out your way to do something amazing for her.
You planned a date or a surprise for weeks, or maybe a month, and in the end, she either never showed up, appreciated it, or was unimpressed by what you offered.
How did that make you feel?
Most likely, it made you feel worthless, made you feel stupid, and it may have made you really depressed.
That is natural, we are only human, and we want to receive the same love from others that we give to them.
Narcissistic people are the inverse of who we are, and what would hurt them is not doing something nice or loving towards us but mean and vile things to us.
When they do something nasty and you just grey rock them (give the no energy), or if they discard us and we just move on as if we were never in a relationship with them, it reminds them of how worthless they really are.
And with female narcissists, this will drive them up the wall.
If you happen to get into a happy and healthy relationship with a new woman, she will go banana apes off the wall insane at you, for your perceivable leaving of her, even though she discarded you.
When we Ignore, and in this case, just accept that she doesn’t want us in her life and live happily without her in it, she will start to question her own worth.
Get ready for the smear campaigns, the false accusations that you hurt her or even tried to rape her.
Be prepared for the stalking and her getting ready to jump in front of your car while you are driving.
I have had this happen to me before.
These people are INSANE.
Silence Is Power
You may feel hurt by the amount of love you poured into her and not receiving any back.
You may feel angry at allowing her to treat you the way she did for so long, and will want to retaliate against her actions towards you.
And you may regret the amount of time that you wasted on her.
But revenge, giving her any more time, is NOT the way to handle things with her.
The best way to get justice is to ignore her and move on with your life. Live your life as if you never even met her.
Final Thoughts
Abuse against men has to have more awareness.
Yes, women get abused more times than men, but that does NOT justify the abuse that GOOD MEN go through n a DAILY BASIS.
Good men, just like good women, need to have a healthy relationship where their partner supports them and not abusing them.
If you find that you have no one to talk to and that you need that psychological support and even emotional support, I highly recommend speaking to a therapist.
Therapy can help strengthen your psyche and get all of what is weighing down on your chest off.
You need not fight this battle alone anymore.
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