Have you ever had one of those days where no matter how hard you tried everything you attempted just turned in to one big cluster?
This was one of those days...
We thought we had a pretty good plan going in. We were really tired of all the long distance driving we had been doing and decided to find a campsite early in the morning which would allow us to unwind a little and free us up to relax and maybe do a little reading, blog writing, and more or less bum around. We had been averaging close to 250 miles a day the past three days, and although we have driven much further than that, this trip wasn't about churning up the miles to get from point A to point B as quickly as possible, it was about the trip itself. You know, smelling the roses along the way and all. So we had set our sights on Presque Isle State Park in Erie, Pennsylvania, a mere fifty nine miles down the road. It looked like a pretty neat spot, set up on a peninsula sticking way out into Lake Erie, and being that it was only an hour away and we were packed up and ready to go by eight am we would be getting there in plenty of time to at least secure a site for the evening even if it meant waiting a little while before being able to set up camp.
Our overall driving speed was now about four miles an hour, and we were now completely surrounded by lots and lots of walkers and pseudo runners, of which about a third of were dressed in wild and whacky attire. Really cute under the circumstances.
We continued to press on like some sort of low budget float in a small time parade, and hoped that around each bend the campgrounds would appear and allow us to exit this slowly moving morass of humanity.
We had now been on this little park road for about a half an hour, which as far as Jerani was concerned was about 29 minutes too long. The road of course was only heading in ONE DIRECTION, and every available pull-off had been commandeered by water support stations or cheering throngs of well wishers. "You can DO IT, YOU CAN DO IT! YAY...WHOO!!!!"
It was about at this point we realized that the reason we were surrounded by slowly walking overweight entrants and barely jogging wannabe athletes was that we were at the back of the pack. These were the slowest most incapable participants in the half marathon; therefore it only made sense that this little one lane road would be crammed with people from this point forward until it reached the exit of the park which more than likely was where the finish line was set up.
We would never see the end to this endless flood of extremely unfit but good intentioned runners er...walkers. Being that it was for a good cause did little to dampen our rising anger towards the inconvenience this was causing us. (Yes, we are that shallow...) At this point we were traveling at no more than two or three miles an hour (I kid you not) and we were still less than two thirds from the end of the peninsula, which only meant the halfway mark of this nightmare. Jerani started looking over the map to see where the campgrounds were so we could at least turn off somewhere and get away from this frustrating parade.
Checking the Rand McNally atlas against the MapQuest on her Kindle Fire HD, we suddenly came to the conclusion (albeit a little late) that there WERE NO CAMPGROUNDS at Presque Isle State Park, it was in fact, a DAY USE ONLY park. Wow, that sucks. How could we have missed that you might ask? Well the little Christmas tree looking symbol associated with day use only in the Rand McNally atlas was somewhat obscured and it's teeny-tiny representation ended up looking to us as if it was a green triangle tent-like hieroglyph which designated campsites and overnight camping. AAAAAAHHhhHHHhhhHhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!
Not only were we trapped in this endless race but now we wouldn't be checking in to a nice campsite at a decent hour. It was already close to 10:30 AM, and we had been waylaid. We continued on at this inch at-a-time pace around the park and we both became fuming pissed. This IS NOT how we envisioned spending our morning when we broke camp.
Jerani finally demanded to at least stop and see the beach. We found a pull off with picnic tables that was deserted and parked the RV. We took the critters for a walk and let Max run on the beach. Erley hated it and didn't want to come away from the edge of the woods once he stepped into the deep sand. The beach was littered with old used diapers and such. Really added to the feelings of frustration we were experiencing. We sat on some nasty picnic tables and tried to calm down.
Nasty Picnic table |
View from our campsite. Lake Erie State Park, NY. Paradise on Earth. |
It was hot out and we found ourselves in a parking lot near a locked up lodge building near wooded trails that sported signs warning of deer tick infestation. We parked under some big oaks and leashed up Max and Erley and Jerani sat with them on a picnic table while I fixed cheese, crackers, lunch-meat and fruit for lunch. We still hadn't come to terms with how crappy the day was and we sort of ate in silence sweating in the still humid air. It was around 2 PM and there was no way we felt like returning to our site. The RV was in dire need of an interior cleaning, so since the day was already so crappy to begin with, why not pile on. We did the dishes, vacuumed, and shook out all the bedding. We gathered all the laundry and decided to head into Dunkirk to find a laundromat and grocery store. We had basically surrendered to the fact that this day was going to blow, and we thought why not do laundry to top it off.
Dunkirk New York didn't soften the blow. Ugly, run down, graffiti marred, and with little or no redeeming features that we could see from the windows of our Pleasure Way, Dunkirk fit in perfectly with the mood of the day.
Dunkirk coal plant |
Another nice Dunkirk residence |
The ancient linoleum floors were peeling and tacky underfoot, and the whole place stank of mold, dirty clothes, and insect spray. I walked over to the quarter machine and was greeted by a yellowed hand-written sign which read "quarter machine broken". Great. By the sun-faded condition of the sign this machine hadn't worked for possibly twenty years, and unfortunately, but completely keeping with the rest of the days events, we didn't have a quarter to our name. Back into the RV toting all the laundry, Jerani said "Forget it!", but I would not be deterred. No, we were GOING TO DO SOME LAUNDRY. By hell or high water, we were going to find some quarters and ruin the rest of our afternoon doing laundry in a nasty little stinky laundromat! Why not, there was no saving this day if we tried? So twenty minutes later, and a stop at a equally depressing car wash for quarters, and we were back at the laundromat witnessing the same sore covered woman shoving sodden clothes into a dryer while she cursed about the washer not spinning her clothes properly. Well duh... Jerani and I decided that for mental health sake I would stay with the laundry while she retired to the RV and tried to reach her parents on the phone. We didn't really trust our laundry not to disappear should we both leave the premise. I stayed clear of the offending washers that the woman had said left her clothes soaked, and crossed my fingers that the three I chose wouldn't let me down, but I did so with little or no conviction. Later while the clothes were drying and since the lady had left the building I figured I could probably spend some quality time with Jerani and keep an eye on the front door of the laundromat. Jerani was talking to her mom, letting her know what a nice place Dunkirk was an all and what a great time we were having, and I sat at the little cafe table in the back of the RV and wrote out some very morose postcards to people back home depicting life on the road. Finally with the clothes dried, folded, and put away in the RV, we headed back out looking for a grocery store.
I had asked the worker at the car wash where I might find an actual grocery store and he told me there was a "Martin's" just up the road a bit. We had never heard of this chain before and figured it had to be nicer than the Laundromat we had just left.
But the thing that really resonated with us and that set this market apart (and not in a good way) from any grocery store we had ever shopped at were the checkers. We're used to be greeted by amiable checkers who usually greet us with a "How are you today!" and a big smile. The workers behind the check-stand at Martin's were anything but friendly. Actually they were close to being openly hostile. The woman waiting on us never once acknowledged us, she just started taking our items off the little conveyer belt, scanned them, and then tossed them towards the back of the counter. We both noticed that she never brought out a sack or asked us "Paper or plastic?", she just kept piling up our groceries up unceremoniously. Puzzled we looked around and noticed that all the other shoppers at the checkout stands were bagging their groceries as the indifferent checkers slung them at them. Jerani sorta chuckled and said "So we have to bag our own groceries?" which was met with absolutely no response. Now don't get us wrong, it's not that we are incapable of bagging our own groceries, and have in fact on numerous occasions happily volunteered to do so when the checkers seemed in need. But being forced to bag ones own groceries as a paying customer as the snide little checker just stares and leans against the counter, now that's no bueno. It seemed REALLY unwelcoming. Sort of a final slap in the face to your loyal patrons. Luckily we weren't loyal, and if we had anything to do with it we would never be shopping at another Martins if we had anything to say about it.
Actual picture taken out the back window of our RV in our REALLY PRIVATE campsite. Nice, huh? |
The rest of the night was spent with tightly sealed windowshades playing music loud enough to drown out the children and just praying that this day might sometime end.