Hello there and welcome to my blog. I’m hoping you’ve had a Smile on your face today and if you haven’t… just smile, you don’t need a reason to. Soooooo, Chef Cromwell is back with more ingredients to make the perfect girl soup. Last post, I gave the basic ingredients but today, I’m adding a couple more ingredients that tilt the scale in your favor. Before I continue, I want to say this, this post isn’t to make you feel inferior or set standards for you to live by. I’m just giving you a trip into a guy’s mind, to let you know the little things that stand out to us. So, you don’t have to be all of them, you could see some and be like “Nah, that’s too dumb, I can’t be that” or you could see something and be like “Hmm, I could do that”. Just remember it’s not to make you feel uncomfortable, just to understand how the mind of the dumb creatures called Male, work (Sorry brothers).

Okay, now that that’s out of the way, let’s get on with our field trip, shall we?

Smile!!!

 It starts with your smile. I know a lot of guys and I happen to be a guy myself and I know for certain, that almost every guy is attracted to a girl’s smile. Firstly, every human being on the planet, looks better when they smile. Smiles always make a girl look more attractive (there’s just something about the light from the teeth). Also, a smile is this non-verbal sign of invitation, we smile to the people we like and frown at those we don’t want to be around. Well guess what, guys know this, so when you smile he feels he’s invited and you like his presence, so he keeps on getting drawn to you. No one likes to be where they aren’t invited, so smile. But wait……. don’t overdo it, you’ll end up looking like a creep. I know it’s tricky but try to smile often, not at everything he says. Don’t worry, you’ll get the hang of it.

“Please, let us see your teeth”

Please smell nice

No one really needs to say this. I don’t think I’ve come across a girl with body odor before, not really looking forward to that either, but your scent is something you need to put a lot of thought into. There’s something about your scent, can’t really put my finger on it but just draws guys to you. I personally have a thing for girls who have a nice scent, like flowery, tender scents. It just attracts you to the girl and you just want to spend more time around her.

“So please, ejo, biko, smell nice”

Your voice, yeah that

This is something that I’m sure some people won’t be comfortable with because you can’t change your voice so if you are one of them just move to the next point. Here’s the thing, there’s just something about a nice voice that is so attractive. Personally, something that stands out for me is how she says my name. There are two girls I can never forget just cause of the way they used to say my name, it was almost like my name was made for their mouths. And you could trust, I started to have feelings from the minute they said my name (I met them at different points in my life, just to be clear). I know it sounds dumb, but your accent, your voice, I don’t know…. How you sound, how you say his name, (see how confused I am), is just a major key.

Have a nice sense of humor

Hmm, it is time to talk about humor. It’s not news that we all Love to Laugh and in return, love the feeling of making people laugh. When it comes to sense of humor, it doesn’t only entail you making someone laugh, it also entails how you respond to when someone tries to make you laugh. Most people love to hang out with people who make them feel good about themselves (obviously) and guys are no different. Guys tend to be attracted to girls who make them feel funny, girls who laugh at their jokes and its even a bigger plus when she can make him laugh.

Now when, I give advice like this, I advise not to laugh too much (like I did with smiling) but this ingredient is so powerful that even when you laugh too much around him, it isn’t a turn off. I can’t count how many times, I’ve been around girls who laugh a lot about what I say and deep down I know what I said wasn’t all that funny, but I still want to be around them. There’s something about the cheerfulness and the atmosphere of laughter that keeps drawing you back.

“Please, laugh very, very, very, very, well”

So, this is a wrap of the second post. I don’t want it to be too long, so I’m making a final post rounding up the other ingredients. Remember this post isn’t to make you feel uncomfortable about yourself, just to see how the mind of guys work. And also, know that you not having these qualities does not mean you cannot be loved by a guy, the girl I’m currently… you know *clears throat*, doesn’t tick all the boxes and I still love her either ways because Love is a thing of the heart not the mind.

I plan on making the guy’s version of this post, so please if you would like to be a part of it, just drop your comments below and I’ll reference you when I make the post. Thanks a lot for your time, I hope you gained something from this post or had fun while reading it.

Have a wonderful day.