Pretty recently, this 37-year-old woman came across steamy pictures of herself on her 40-year-old husband’s phone, and they were clearly screenshots of a video that she had made with her 42-year-old now ex-Husband.
She has been married to her Current Husband for seven years, and she was married before him to her ex-husband for six years and six months.
Anyway, while she still had her husband’s phone in her hand, a notification popped up from her ex-husband, and she clicked on it to see what it was.
In hindsight, she almost wishes she never clicked to see, but she did. Her ex-husband had sent her husband side-by-side photos comparing some very private photos of her showing what she looked like before giving birth to her two children and what she looked like after.
She had no clue one of the photos even existed, but the second photo was from a video she had asked her husband to delete forever during their divorce process.
“I was completely shocked that he [my ex-husband] would be sending this to my current husband, and I wanted to contact him and give him a piece of my mind,” she explained.
“Then, out of habit, I scrolled up to previous messages and noticed that my current husband was not just a recipient of messages like this but also a contributor to them as well.”
There were tons of videos and photos her husband sent to her ex-husband that had clearly been made during some private moments between them, and obviously without her knowledge or consent.
From what she could determine, her current husband was the one who started this whole exchange, and it seemed like the two men were in some kind of bizarre competition to one-up the other.
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She was shocked, horrified, and betrayed to discover all of this, and she is clueless about what to do moving forward.
“I’m completely blown away and embarrassed that this has even happened,” she said. “We have such a good relationship between all of us, and I feel like I’ve been just another…conquest for both of them.”
“I’m afraid that if I bring it up it will jeopardize the relationship between all of us and ruin the dynamics that we’ve created to all be unified.”
What advice do you have for her?
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