For a year and a half, this 34-year-old woman has been in a relationship with her Boyfriend, 45.

Several months ago, they bought a home.

Over the majority of their time dating, her boyfriend has been relaxed and displayed emotional intelligence. Whenever she’s felt hurt by anything, he has been an attentive listener and has done his best to make improvements.

One Saturday night, in the process of buying their house, feeling overwhelmed, she and her boyfriend went out drinking. Their week had been a struggle because of all the stress.

“We got in a huge fight, and he called me ‘fatty.’ This was very upsetting to me because I have struggled with my weight my entire life. I’m always watching my calories and exercising as much as I can, but it’s just something that can creep up on me very quickly if I’m not careful,” she said.

Throughout the last several months, she was insecure due to weight gain, and her goal was to lose some of the weight she’d gained.

However, since she is a single mother to her 10-year-old son, parenting is her main priority, and that was often her focus at the end of the workday rather than going to the gym. Despite how busy her schedule is, she has made a point to work out a few times each week.

According to her boyfriend, he’d only name-called her in retaliation to her calling him ugly, but she doesn’t remember doing so.

The morning after their argument, they told each other they were sorry and forgave one another. They also came to a decision not to drink that much alcohol from then on because they didn’t want to speak that way to each other ever again, acknowledging that name-calling was unacceptable in a relationship.

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“Since then, I don’t always feel comfortable eating around him and am aware that he seems to want to touch me less, even though he swears that’s not true. He also made one more small comment about my weight recently when I was looking at a picture of myself in college and mentioned that I would love to be that thin again. He said then I better start working out like crazy,” she explained.

A couple of nights ago, her son was with his father. Since she and her boyfriend had some time to themselves, they decided to go out to a restaurant.

She got a salad with grilled chicken, and her boyfriend ordered a burger. And as an appetizer, he had an order of Potato Skins.

As soon as the food arrived and the waiter put their plates on the table, her boyfriend looked at her salad, which was a pretty large portion, and asked if she was really going to eat all of it since it was so much.

He meant it as a joke, but it was obviously rude regardless.

She told him that she wasn’t, and due to feeling uncomfortable, she mainly ate only the chicken.

Understandably, she was irritated that he’d said anything related to her food at all. But she brushed off her feelings and assumed that she was just making a big deal out of it.

Her boyfriend finished his burger and only had two Potato skins left over. Because she still felt a bit hungry, she asked him if she could have a bit of one of the potato skins. Her boyfriend told her to go for it, and he left the table to use the bathroom.

While he was gone, she ate half of one of the potato skins, and when she was done, she put the other half back in the basket on the table.

“When he got back from the bathroom, he looked at the basket and picked up the napkin that was covering the second one and said, ‘Did you eat that one, TOO? Because it had a bite out of it. I said, ‘No, just a half of one,’ and then I got upset. I said, ‘Why does it matter? Can I just eat dinner without the comments? I ate some grilled chicken and half a potato skin. You’re acting like I’m eating a whole cow,'” she shared.

After this, her boyfriend was furious and rude. He claimed that the reason he asked her if she’d eaten part of the second potato skin was because he’d already eaten part of it, and he told her that she was being overdramatic. He continued, saying that it wasn’t his fault that she misunderstood what he meant.

But from her perspective, she didn’t understand how his comment wasn’t shaming her for how much she was eating. His claim that he was just worried about her eating something that he’d already taken a bite out of didn’t make much sense.

She expressed this to her boyfriend, and since the fight, they haven’t spoken.

What would you do if you were in her shoes?

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