This woman’s Sister was only married for a year and a half before getting divorced about two months ago. And she admits that she cannot even imagine how hard it must be for her sister right now.
However, her sister’s ex-husband used to login to his account on her sister’s laptop. So, her sister has continued checking her ex-husband’s Email Account every single day and providing her with “updates.”
For instance, her sister will fill her in on whether or not the guy is online shopping or joining dating apps.
Not to mention, her sister also keeps pretending that she’s still married whenever coworkers ask about her ex.
“To be fair, their marriage only lasted about one and a half years, so my sister feels embarrassed to tell her colleagues,” she explained.
“But I told her to just let the cat out of the bag because she’s only causing herself undue stress.”
Aside from the Email obsession, her sister has apparently been doing great otherwise. In fact, her sister recently purchased a home and began personal training.
Yet, every few days, she receives an update about what her sister’s ex is doing online. Then, whenever she tries to tell her sister that this behavior is not healthy, her sister claims that checking the guy’s email is not affecting her and swears that she isn’t attached to him.
So, even though she keeps telling her sister to just log out of the email account and mind her own business, her sister refuses to listen.
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“My sister uses the excuse that her ex still uses her mailing address, and so she wants to ‘keep tabs’ on him,” she said.
“I call [Bologna] on that because I’ve already put his mail in the return mail a few times, and nothing has arrived since.”
And she genuinely believes that her sister’s email snooping habit is seriously detrimental to the post-divorce healing journey. That’s why, two days ago, she decided to go on her sister’s computer and log out of the ex’s email. Then, she also deleted the saved password– which her sister did not know– preventing her sister from logging back in.
Ever since finding out about what she did, though, her sister has been super upset with her. She got accused of having no right to get involved.
Still, she has not apologized to her sister because, while she knows that she overstepped a boundary, she doesn’t actually feel sorry for logging out of the email account.
“I just can’t stand the thought of my sister’s ex going on dates while she’s at home checking his email account for updates,” she vented.
Regardless, with her sister still angry at her, she’s now wondering whether logging out of the Gmail account was the wrong thing to do.
Do you agree that she overstepped her sister’s boundaries? Or was her sister already violating her ex-husband’s privacy? Did she do the right thing by logging her sister out of the email account? What would you have done if you were in her shoes?
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