This 27-year-old woman has been dating her Girlfriend, who is 26, for nearly two years. This is her first-ever relationship, and she and her girlfriend immediately hit it off after meeting each other.

So, they moved in together quite quickly once they made it official.

Before they entered a relationship, though, she was extremely motivated and driven to enjoy her time away from work. But, nowadays, she just feels unhappy and depleted with her current situation.

Ever since she and her girlfriend met at a bar, alcohol has been a running theme throughout their relationship.

“I have never been with someone who enjoys drinking so much– even past friends and roommates,” she said.

“I spent much of last summer hungover and tired, and I told myself I would not get to that point this summer, even if my girlfriend does.”

Throughout last year, she also felt like her girlfriend took advantage of her. She received no help with any of the household chores, such as vacuuming, dishes, getting groceries, and general cleaning.

She tried to talk to her girlfriend, too and brought up how her partner needed to pull her own weight on three different occasions.

Yet, after each discussion, her girlfriend would just help for a while before gradually falling off the horse again.

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It even got so bad that she was forced to take care of her girlfriend’s dog throughout the winter simply because her girlfriend was always too hungover or just too tired to take the pup outside.

Not to mention, her girlfriend was also always too tired to get to work on time with her– since they work at the same company in different departments. This made her constantly late, and she kept telling her girlfriend that she didn’t mind going on the bus or even just driving herself.

Nonetheless, her girlfriend would always insist on traveling to work together. So, she would just miss the bus, wait on her girlfriend, and end up late for work.

“This felt disrespectful, and the dog was the final straw,” she recalled.

“After the winter, I broke up with her but gave her another chance. She insisted she would change and has stepped it up in these two regards.”

Still, some things haven’t changed. She still is unhappy with their chore division, as well as how her current summer is going– because, just like last year, she’s often waiting on her girlfriend to find the motivation to do things.

For instance, she loves hiking, being outdoors, or even just getting out of the house. That’s why she plans all of their dates and getaways and handles the house all by herself.

Before she entered her relationship, she would also often get up early on the weekends or spend whole days just hiking. Her girlfriend claimed to want to give hiking a try, too and was open to being more adventurous.

“And my girlfriend has said that she doesn’t want to spend this summer like the last one where we were hungover, slept late, and didn’t do anything,” she added.

However, she still finds herself waiting around for her girlfriend. Then, her girlfriend will always just come up with an excuse for breaking their plans.

And if she doesn’t wait and goes out by herself or goes hiking with her best friend, her girlfriend just gets extremely jealous and angry.

Her girlfriend will also become self-deprecating, claiming “not to be fun anyway.”

“I feel like I can’t win. I am upset because I want my partner to try my hobbies, and I want someone who will spend days hiking with me or planning dates and looking into the happenings so we can spend time and enjoy ourselves together,” she explained.

“I don’t want to prioritize drinking anymore, and I have not.”

It seriously bothers her that, some days, her girlfriend will be way too hungover to even leave the house. Yet, on other days, her girlfriend will pick up a bottle and get wasted again.

Her girlfriend claims to not have a drinking problem, but she doesn’t fully believe that. After all, her girlfriend is constantly tired and has developed insecurities following weight gain that was definitely influenced by drinking.

She has brought up not drinking numerous times and has also suggested that they talk to a therapist, get back into running, and start training for a race together.

Despite all of her efforts, though, her girlfriend cannot find the motivation to help herself.

“It’s bringing me down and upsetting me. I am unhappy, and I can’t work on myself and support her as well,” she vented.

“I don’t know what to do about it anymore.”

To make matters even worse, her girlfriend has brought up the idea of marriage, and she was forced to admit that she just is not ready for that at this point.

They’ve both had various discussions about the issues in their relationship, and she’s even tried to set “check-in” dates each week or month to see how they are progressing.

But, unless she initiates every time, her girlfriend doesn’t put in any effort.

So, while she loves her girlfriend and doesn’t want to end their relationship, she is extremely frustrated with their current situation and has no clue what to do about it.

Have you ever been with a partner who is extremely unmotivated? Does it sound like she’s tried everything possible to help her girlfriend? At the end of the day, are we able to control others’ actions? Do you think she should save her sanity and end the relationship? 

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