If you’ve been in the dating world for a while, you’ve most likely stumbled across a “serial dater” at some point. A serial dater is someone who goes on one date after another with multiple people and exits their lives before anything serious can develop.

They are usually master manipulators, presenting themselves as someone they’re not and leading their dates on.

TikToker Heather Silvis (@doctor_swageyes) is warning Women about a guy she calls the Bumble Bandit. He lies to women to gain sympathy and makes them feel special in order to sleep with them.

So she met a guy named Jordan on Bumble, and they were smitten with each other from the start. He was a celebrity bodyguard, worked for Disney, and was in a punk rock band.

On the day of their initial date, he sent her a text message saying he was on his way to see her. But a short while later, he texted again to let her know he had been in a car accident. He also sent her a photo of him getting his car fixed.

What caught her eye was that the picture had been taken two weeks prior. So she accused him of lying, and they argued back and forth for a bit.

Then, he admitted that he suffered from extreme anxiety, and when he was on his way to see her, he had a panic attack. He asked if she would give him another chance.

She decided to drive out to spend the weekend with him. So they met up, went out for sushi, and ended up back at her hotel room, where they hooked up.

Afterward, he said he needed to run out to his car to grab something, but he never returned. She texted him, asking him what happened. He blocked her phone number.

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Before their date, she found out his first, middle, and last name as well as his birth date. So she conducted a background check on him and discovered his address.

Once she had his address, she headed to his apartment. Nobody answered the door, but she was pretty sure he had a wife or girlfriend. He did not block her on Bumble, so she sent him a picture of herself outside his apartment complex.

In an update posted on TikTok, she revealed that he later called her not once but twice. The first phone call lasted twelve minutes and consisted of him apologizing repeatedly. The second call occurred about an hour later, in which he told her that he wanted her back.

She said that they would talk about it in the morning. The next morning, he confessed to his lies. For example, he made up a story about how his daughter died, and he was still dealing with his grief.

After coming clean, he then went on to say that he didn’t want to date her unless she took down her TikTok videos. She informed him that she no longer wanted to date him anyway and that the videos needed to stay up to serve as a warning to other women.

In the comments section, several women opened up that Jordan had also dated them recently and done the same things to them as he did to Heather.

Heather’s story has allowed other women to be able to come forward and have their voices heard. And finally, this man is being held accountable for his actions. Good things happen when women unite.

@doctor_swageyes

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? original sound – Heather Silvis

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