This 33-year-old woman has been in a long-distance relationship with her boyfriend, who is 37, for four months now.

And throughout their relationship, it has become alarmingly apparent that her boyfriend is very insecure.

Apparently, whenever they go out, he will get mad at her completely out of the blue. Then, when she asks what’s wrong, her boyfriend will just shut down and say they will talk later when they get back to the car.

So, regardless of where they are– whether they’re visiting the zoo, at a theme park, or grabbing dinner– her boyfriend will be in a sour mood for the entire time until they get back to the car. And sometimes, these mood swings will last hours.

Then, by the time they finally get in the car to head home, her boyfriend will just explode and accuse her of looking at other men.

One time, she got accused of “checking out” a guy in green shorts and being incredibly disrespectful. Another time, when they were in an Uber, she was just looking out the window, and her boyfriend had a complete meltdown– accusing her of checking out a random guy at the bus stop.

Finally, when they went out to dinner once, her boyfriend claimed that she actually licked her lips and stared at a table of men behind them!

“It’s [promiscuous] behavior. If you want to be [promiscuous], you can just be single,” her boyfriend told her at the time.

“My ex used to do that, and it drove me freaking insane! Stop doing it! How would you like it if I did that? You know what, fine, I’m just going to start checking out women in front of you and see how you feel!”

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Now, her boyfriend’s behavior has left her utterly confused because she swears that she is never “checking out” any other men. Instead, she sometimes just looks around at her surroundings.

“I had no idea a guy with green shorts even existed. Sometimes, men happen to cross my line of vision, and I might happen to look at them, but that isn’t ‘checking anyone out,'” she explained.

She knows that if she did check any men out, that would be extremely disrespectful. But she swore she never does that, and she isn’t sure how to get her boyfriend to believe her.

Whenever she tries to tell her boyfriend that she didn’t even look at another guy, he just accuses her of sounding guilty and getting defensive.

Plus, if she just brushes her boyfriend’s comments off, then her boyfriend claims she isn’t taking him seriously and will proceed to actually interrogate her for hours.

“Then he will accuse me of cheating,” she added.

While she knows her boyfriend wants her to just admit to checking out guys and apologize to him, though, she absolutely refuses to admit to something that she isn’t doing.

So, that’s left her relationship in a stalemate, and she has no idea why her boyfriend keeps accusing her of looking at other men.

“I have sworn on my dead grandfather’s grave that I am not doing it, and he still doesn’t believe me,” she vented.

On top of that, she even reached out to a polygraph detector testing site and agreed to take a lie detector test for her boyfriend! Regardless, he just said those tests “weren’t always accurate.”

That’s why she feels like her boyfriend is simply driving her insane.

And now, she’s been left wondering how to deal with the situation and convince her boyfriend that she really isn’t doing anything wrong.

Why do you think her boyfriend is acting like this after only four months of dating? Is his behavior a red flag? Is it worth it for her to keep trying to convince her boyfriend? Or should she get out of this relationship?

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