A girl in her mid-20s has a Boyfriend the same age as her that she has been in a relationship with for the last 7 years.

She originally met her boyfriend in her junior year of high school, and his best friend introduced the two of them.

She really did fall in love with her boyfriend from the moment that she met him. Back then, her boyfriend was a bit shorter than she was, and he was overweight as well as not exactly conventionally attractive.

Her boyfriend had the most wonderful personality though, even if he wasn’t a male model or anything like that.

He was kind, he was affectionate, and he noticed when she did different things with her makeup. He smiled in a way that made her heart melt and gave her compliments on everything.

He wrote her a letter to celebrate every single one of their anniversaries, and she saved every single one.

“He was bullied several times and had major insecurities about himself,” she explained. “I stayed with him among those years and did my best to support him.”

“I once told him I loved every part of him and that there wasn’t anything of him I wanted to change. He cried that day.”

So 3 years ago, she and her boyfriend made a commitment to get healthier together. They tossed their junk food in the trash and purchased better food.

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They bought gym memberships and began going to work out. Although they fell off the wagon on a couple of occasions, they supported one another in trying again.

Right now, her boyfriend has managed to lose nearly half of his Body weight, and he has washboard abs and a phenomenal body.

While she is proud of his hard work, she Honestly Misses how he was when he was fat.

“The problem is, he’s like a new person,” she said. “He’s always either at the gym, at work, or went to bed early for his 8 hours of sleep.”

“Whenever we’re together, he comments on the food I eat/my weight. He constantly shows me the comments he gets from girls after posting shirtless body pictures, saying how he was hot and how they wished they could touch his abs like he was proud of it.”

“He replied to one girl, telling her that she was free to feel his muscles anytime with a winky face. I confronted him, telling him it was disrespectful to say that when he had a girlfriend, and he tried to insist it was just a joke and called me insecure about it.”

Her boyfriend always used to say that he loved her, but he doesn’t say those words to her any longer.

He never shows her affection, and he never asks about how her day is going. He’s also not interested in hearing her talk about her life or anything that she has going on.

One of the worst parts of their relationship is that her boyfriend has said that he doesn’t like to be seen in public with her because she humiliates him.

“We don’t go out on dates anymore because he’s embarrassed of me and thinks I would put a bad look on him because I’m not athletic (I’m 5’5 and weigh 125lbs),” she continued.

When her boyfriend said that to her, she yelled back that she stuck by him when he was double the size he is now, and she always stuck up for him when he got bullied for his weight.

Her boyfriend’s response to her was that he changed, and he’s sorry she didn’t.

The man that she fell in love with is nothing like how he used to be, and quite frankly, he’s a jerk. It hurts her to know that he has changed for the worse.

“I read the letters he used to write for me and cried for an hour,” she added. “It feels like the man I was in love with died.”

“After my lease ends (2 months), I will cut him off. I thought I was going to marry this man, but now I don’t think I could be with someone who will put me down after all those years I’ve been supporting his insecurities. I’m so heartbroken. I miss the person who he was.”

Do you think she should try at all to salvage their relationship, or should she dump him as soon as her lease is up?

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