A 32-year-old woman dated her 33-year-old ex for nearly an entire decade. After close to 10 whole years together, this guy broke up with her.

He gave her some excuse that didn’t make any sense at the time, but she later found out the real reason why he dumped her is that he Cheated on her with some other woman.

Things did not end well between her and her ex, and after he dumped her, he blocked her from being able to reach him at all.

Well, she understandably struggled after the end of her relationship, but it has now been a few years since that all went down.

Her ex actually ended up texting her a few years later to apologize to her for how he dealt with everything.

He told her that he thought he should have done things differently, and she accept his apology.

She said that they “buried the hatchet” and began to be cordial to one another since they would run into each other.

She also ended up being cordial to his girlfriend too (remember, that’s the woman he left her for).

“After a while (like, a long while, girl needed to heal and be by herself for a lonnggg time) I started dating a friend from our mutual group (so, one of “his” friends, since they were teenagers),” she explained.

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“We’re incredibly happy and everything’s been great these last years together. Ex wasn’t exactly happy about it from what I’ve heard but in his defense, I’ll say he hasn’t said or done anything untoward regarding our relationship so all is well.”

She found out around a month ago that her ex is now getting married to the girl that he cheated on her with.

Her ex sent a text to her current Boyfriend to share the big news, and her boyfriend immediately said that he would be attending the Wedding.

Her ex said to her boyfriend that she is invited to their wedding as well, but when her boyfriend revealed that to her, she said she didn’t want to go to the wedding.

Now, her boyfriend is incredibly understanding of why she doesn’t want to go to the wedding, and he’s going to be going without her.

Some of their friends, however, can’t for the life of them grasp why she does not want to be there for her ex’s nuptials.

Her friends think she should get over things and go to the wedding since it will be fun. She really would feel uneasy going, and she knows the sole reason she received an invitation is that her boyfriend is her ex’s friend.

The friends she does have that get why she doesn’t want to go still think she should anyway.

She’s now debating attending since her friends have made her feel like it’s time to just get over it all and put her discomfort aside for the day.

How would you deal with this?

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