By Books Author Denise Turney

Starts are exciting, full of hope, trust and surprise. They rarely require much Surrender. And, who wouldn’t love a new start! In fact, there may be no better time when you don’t need convincing that a relationship, project or travel discovery is absolutely going to turn out fabulously. Then, you get to the middle of a relationship, work at the same company for two years or are six months into a year-long international nature trip.

Starts Surrender Easy

As fun as your nature trip has been, there have been bumps. Imagine this. While in Italy, on a winding country road, you get lost. But, you keep driving, figuring that you’ll find your way back to your hotel. Five minutes don’t pass before a tire on your rental car pops then flattens. It’s night. All you feel that you can do is curse and bang the steering wheel. Yet, that won’t get you to the hotel.

Then, there’s the food that you ate while visiting Brazil a day ago that your stomach is still angry with you about. When it comes to work, you’ve been on the job long enough to get to know the different personalities. You get along with nearly everyone. But, the strong willed executive assistant is rubbing your nerves real thin. And, one of your managers just won’t stop challenging your every decision.  It wasn’t that way when you started. There was nothing to surrender to then.

In fact, on your first day at the job, the entire team treated you to breakfast, hugs and the most delightful conversation. Oh, and that used-to-be-new relationship. There are things about your partner that are starting to annoy you. It’s only happened twice. But, you’ve even started to wonder if you picked the right partner.

Welcome To The Middle – Time To Surrender

You’re in the middle, the place where struggle can occur and the only way out be through surrender. Better, you can’t go back and you know it. If  you stay, you’ll have to set a new goal for the relationship, job or trip.

For example, instead of staying in the relationship so that you can prove to your family and friends that you married the right person or staying together so that your kids can grow up with both their parents living in the same house, the new goal for your relationship might be to have a blast exploring the world together, starting two businesses that thrive for generations and, more importantly, helping each other to waken spiritually.

Even with the changed goal, it’s going to take focus and commitment. Why? You’re going to want to quit. Now that your goal has shifted, to succeed, you need to do two more things. You need to surrender and trust.

Surrender to your true Self. And, surrender to the Creator. Then, trust that the Creator and your true Self know the way that you should go. Sound easy? Only if it was.

Battles Toward Surrender

Ego is going to put up a fierce battle to keep you under its guidance. You may be enticed to return to old addictions (e.g. soda Addiction, food addiction, exercise addiction, gossip addiction, alcohol addiction). Also, you might be tempted to return to old relationships. Who knows? You might even start to think that sidestepping surrendering and going back to a former job is the way that you should go.

But, why do you want to go back? You’ve already spent time in the past. Guess is that you already know what’s back there. If you don’t surrender and go back now and the only thing that has changed is you, boredom, low energy and lack of engagement could await.

Surrender To Gain A Better Life

So, are you feeling afraid about what could lay ahead?

And, what part of you is feeling afraid?

To surrender, you need to have faith. You absolutely need to trust the very Source that created you. And why not? You trusted Source while you were being created — marvelous you. Imagine that! Certainly, you can trust now.

Surrender. Pray. Meditate. Explore. Ask questions. Stay curious. Live open. Practice patience. Love yourself. Allow yourself to make mistakes. Let yourself learn. Accept the best visions for your life. Walk in faith. Love at all times. Tap into your core. Keep advancing.

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