Everyone knows breaking up is hard to do—but these historical splits were unimaginably brutal. From horrific secrets tearing once-happy couples apart all the way to warrior exes meeting on the battlefield, these are, by far, the ugliest breakups in history.
1. Henry VIII’s First Victim
We’d be remiss to talk about the ugliest breakups in history without mentioning Henry VIII. As we all know, he was a “love ’em and leave ’em”-type of guy—even if “leave ’em” sometimes meant leaving them in pieces. Henry’s condemnation of Anne Boleyn certainly led to his most disturbing breakup, but that’s territory that we’re all pretty aware of. But what about his first wife, Catherine of Aragon? What happened to her? Well, when it comes to marrying Henry VIII, first is worst.
2. They Got Off To A Rocky Start
Maybe Catherine and Henry were doomed from the beginning. After all, he wasn’t the first Tudor she hooked up with. That’s right, Catherine was originally married to Henry’s older brother, Prince Arthur. But shortly after their honeymoon, the mysterious “sweating sickness” hit them both, killing Arthur. Catherine became a widow at 16—and Henry was now heir to the English throne.
It seemed like her future had been ripped away from her…but she wasn’t about to give up that easily.
3. Her Marriage Was Against the Law
Catherine eventually convinced Henry and his family that she deserved another go as their queen—but there was one big problem hanging over them. Because she had already been married to his brother, they had to get special dispensation from the Pope for the union. Even then, the royals only got a reluctant go-ahead…and only after Catherine made an extremely controversial confession.
Henry and Catherine’s petition to the Pope hinged on a single claim: Catherine’s assurance that she and Arthur had never consummated their union. Was it true or not? Who knows. What matters is that it worked. And, either way, it came back to haunt her…
4. She Couldn’t Produce An Heir
Things began moving quickly for the couple. Henry became King of England, tied the knot with Catherine, and then they each had lavish coronation ceremonies. However, all this joy was punctuated by a profound tragedy. While five months pregnant, Catherine went into premature labor and gave birth to a stillborn baby girl. Sadly, this was just the first of many troubled and/or unsuccessful pregnancies. Catherine eventually did give birth to a son, but he only survived 52 days.
The pressure was on—and it wasn’t about to let up.
5. He Cheated On Her
To make matters worse, Catherine found she had a viper in her midst—the aforementioned Anne Boleyn. Henry fell for Anne, who told him she wouldn’t sleep with him without a ring on her finger. Henry grew desperate to get rid of Catherine, and he came up with a brutally hurtful excuse to kick her to the curb. According to Henry, their union was cosmically cursed, all because he had broken God’s law when he married his brother’s widow. Then, he turned up the heat.
6. She Started a Revolution
This “Great Matter” dragged on for years as Henry tried to get the Church to let him bed Anne Boleyn under the approving eye of God. Today, everyone knows it ended in revolution, with Henry taking over as Head of Church, annulling his own Marriage, and starting the English Reformation. But how did he actually separate from Catherine? Well, not with honor or grace.
In July 1531, he left Catherine on a hunting trip and never came back. In a letter, Catherine complained that he didn’t even wake her up to say goodbye. And then Henry twisted the knife in.
7. Her King Banished Her
Catherine never saw Henry again after that moment, but the King didn’t waste time with a silly thing called “remorse.” Instead, he doubled down. He banished Catherine from his court, forbid her from seeing their daughter Mary, and then installed Boleyn in her old rooms. When she died three years later, Henry and Anne donned yellow clothing. It was a gesture that some saw as celebrating Catherine’s demise. Well, karma’s a witch—and Anne then miscarried a son on the day of Catherine’s funeral.
Between the lack of heirs and his love for Anne, Henry had many reasons to want to dump Catherine. The same can’t be said for Julius Caesar—who famously dumped his wife over a simple misunderstanding…
8. Pompeia Was An Innocent Victim…
Julius Caesar is perhaps the most infamous of all the rulers of ancient Rome. He was a brutal tyrant and dictator whose own men turned on him. Sounds like a real catch, right? After the loss of his first wife, Caesar mourned for a year or two before picking his next bride, a woman named Pompeia. Well, this union was not only unhappy—it also ended in a wild scandal.
9. …But She Got All The Blame
One year during the women-only festival of the Bona Dea, a man named Clodius snuck into the celebrations dressed as a woman, apparently hoping to have a romantic rendez-vous with Pompeia. Authorities caught Clodius and charged him with sacrilege, but Caesar basically let it go—instead, turning his fury toward his unwitting wife. As a result of Clodius’s transgression, Caesar divorced Pompeia almost on the spot. He infamous told her that: “the wife of Caesar must be above suspicion.”
Pompeia got the short end of the stick—something that the subject of our next ugly breakup, Eleanor of Aquitaine, would never let happen. She was way too cunning for that…
10. Not Even The King Of France Could Tame Eleanor Of Aquitaine
Eleanor of Aquitaine was as fierce and formidable as they come. She reigned as queen consort in both England and France in her lifetime, a feat never to be repeated again. Well, you don’t get that kind of power without stepping on a few people along the way—or without starting early. Eleanor was 15 when she wed the 17-year-old heir to the French throne, Louis.
Just days after the ceremony, the groom’s father died, making Eleanor and young Louis VII the rulers of France. So, how was the honeymoon, you ask? Well…
11. It Was An Uneven Match
King Louis was besotted with his new bride, especially admiring Eleanor’s intelligence, beauty, and strength. Eleanor, on the other hand, wasn’t nearly as enamored with her Husband, specifically struggling with his prim and proper ways. She allegedly proclaimed, “I thought I was wed to a king, now I find I am wed to a monk.” Looks like these two have first-class tickets to bedroom problems.
12. She Loathed Him
It wasn’t just the lack of a spark that made Eleanor come to detest her husband. It was his weak will, his inability to rule effectively, and the many mistakes he made on the throne, including the ones he illegitimately blamed on her. Well, after more than a decade of Louis VII’s nonsense, she’d had enough—so she came up with a brutal plan.
13. She Spoke her Mind
How did Eleanor attempt to dump her husband? Well, she said something that would change European history forever. The furious queen spat that she and her husband shouldn’t travel together as man and wife because they were related “in the fourth and fifth degrees.” In Medieval speak, this was a bombshell.
Technically, royals couldn’t wed if they weren’t separated by seven generations. Louis and Eleanor, meanwhile, were only separated by four or five. After so many unhappy years with Louis, Eleanor finally had enough: She would try to end their marriage on grounds of consanguinity.
14. The Pope Denied Her
When Louis and Eleanor got to Jerusalem in 1149, they sought an audience with the Pope and asked him to grant them an annulment. On paper, it was because they were too closely related, but in reality, all the royal couples had intertwined family trees. In actuality, Louis and Eleanor had been married for 15 long years and they still didn’t have a male heir. Plus, on a more basic level, Eleanor simply didn’t love Louis anymore.
To her devastation, the Pope refused to annul the marriage. Soon, all of Europe was buzzing with the couple’s scandalous attempt to split.
15. She Gave It The Old College Try
Eleanor’s plot had failed—and so, for a moment, she took the advice of the pope and tried to make things work with Louis VII. Nine months later, the royal couple had a newborn daughter. The king was disappointed; after all, he needed a male heir. But Eleanor was already hatching a diabolical plan to get out of her miserable marriage.
16. She Was A Master Manipulator
Eleanor knew that if she’d given birth to a boy, she’d never be able to dump Louis, so having little baby Alice was a blessing in disguise. The queen used this “failure” to her advantage, continuing to treat Louis coldly and making it clear that their marriage would only bring them both misery. Over time, her ice queen routine took effect. After years of resisting an annulment, Louis and the Pope suddenly changed their mind and granted one to the royal couple.
17. She Had To Abandon Her Children
Louis was heartbroken, but Eleanor was delighted. She was finally free. But, there was one enormous catch to her split, and it weighed heavily on Eleanor’s heart. Once she abandoned Louis, she also had to give up all claims to her daughters, including little Alice who wasn’t even two years old at the time. Well, the best revenge is living well, and that’s exactly what Eleanor did. She used her land titles to offer herself up to the future King of England, Henry II.
It was a slap in the face to Louis—and he knew he had to strike back.
18. Her Ex Was Furious at Her
Most of Louis’ anger might have come from jealousy, but he had one legitimate reason to be upset with Eleanor. She’d left him by claiming they were too closely related, then gone and married Henry II…who was an even closer relative! The angry French king did what any bitter royal would do: Start a full-on armed conflict his ex and her new boy toy. Going into battle didn’t work out so well for Louis, who had an awful track record with that kind of thing. He suffered an embarrassing defeat at Henry’s capable hands.
That’s taking “adding insult to injury” to the next level. What lesson can be learned here? Don’t mess with Eleanor. She was a heartbreaker, for sure—just like Empress Josephine.
19. Empress Josephine Broke Napoleon’s Heart
Josephine and Napoleon were the Demi Moore/Ashton Kutcher of their day. Not only was she six years older than her boy toy, but Josephine also had the added scandal of being a widow with two children. Instead of taking a young inexperienced woman to be his bride, Napoleon chose a gal who knew her way around the bedroom. The Bonaparte family was appalled by the marriage, which occurred on March 9, 1796.
20. Napoleon Was Obsessed With Her
Napoleon absolutely adored Josephine, but unfortunately for him, she wasn’t quite as smitten. While he would write his wife elaborate love letters about the “intoxicating pleasures” she gave him, Josephine was known to rarely even read Napoleon’s missives. When he cooed over a portrait of his bride and constantly kept it safe in his pocket, apparently Josephine never bothered to look at paintings of her husband.
21. She Had A Passionate Affair
Josephine’s marriages didn’t give her the passionate love affair she desired, so shortly after her second marriage, when Napoleon and his men marched to Italy, she began to look for a new lover. It didn’t take long for her to ensnare a brave, good-looking lieutenant named Hippolyte Charles. Their fiery passion would burn for years…until it all unraveled in a spectacular mess.
Eventually, Napoleon confirmed that his bride was being intimate with another man and became furious. In a rage, he officially denounced the two lovers and his love for Josephine. Not only that, he took a mistress or two of his own. Now that’s not how you reconcile…
22. She Was Pushed Out
Josephine even found Napoleon in her bed with another woman on the day of their coronation. Even after that brutal blow, Napoleon had even more cruelty in store for his wife. He repeatedly threatened Josephine with divorce because he believed that she couldn’t give him one crucial thing: a male heir. The already disintegrating marriage would crumble in 1807, when a massive tragedy rocked the Bonaparte family.
23. He Humiliated Her
Napoleon’s heir presumptive, his nephew Napoleon Charles, tragically perished of croup, leaving the Emperor without any successor. That’s when Napoleon made a brutal choice. He needed an heir, and to get that, he needed a new wife. On December 14, 1809, Napoleon made history by divorcing his great love, Empress Josephine.
24. She Didn’t Take It Well
Apparently, when Napoleon told Josephine that he planned on divorcing her, she temporarily lost her mind. The devastated wife immediately fell to the palace’s floors. She was literally paralyzed by shock, forcing Napoleon to carry her to her bedroom so that she could recover in privacy. But even in her chambers, Josephine couldn’t hide her pain. Her wails echoed throughout the Tuileries.
25. Her Divorce Was Disturbing
Napoleon and Josephine’s breakup was completely scandalous, and their chilling divorce ceremony didn’t make things any more palatable. Even though the breakup had to happen, the couple was so distraught that they read statements of devotion aloud to each other as they signed the divorce paperwork. Josephine was so flustered that she couldn’t finish her statement and needed someone else to step in on her behalf.
But the mixed signals only get murkier…
26. Her Loss Destroyed Napoleon
After contracting a horrible bout of pneumonia in 1814, Josephine died in Rueil-Malmaison of Paris. She was 50 years old. After learning of Josephine’s death, her ex-husband Napoleon responded with a heartbreaking gesture. Mad with grief, he locked himself in his room for two full days and refused to see anyone. Later, when he passed, her name was the last one on his lips.
He was definitely obsessed—but at least he had a healthy outlet for it. Not so with our next subject…
27. Oskar Kokoschka Did NOT Take Rejection Well
When the artist Oskar Kokoschka came back from WWI, he arrived to the bummer discovery that his lover and muse, Alma Mahler, had married someone else. He then moved on like a functional adult. Just kidding: he commissioned a life-sized doll in her image. And it got even more bizarre from there.
28. He Was Fixated
Ordering a dollmaker to build it as realistic as possible—including fake tongue, teeth, and feathery skin to simulate softness—Kokoschka would pose and paint the doll in explicit positions. Nevertheless, even Kokoschka’s relationship with his weird ex-girlfriend doll went south. He grew bored, decapitated the doll, doused it in wine, and threw it out the window. Can you believe the real Mahler dumped this catch of a man?
It’s all pretty disturbing and gruesome, yes—but at least he was taking it out on a doll, not a real person. The same can’t be said for Roman Emperor Nero…
29. Nero Was A Bad Lover To Cross
When you think of Emperor Nero, you probably imagine some of the worst debauchery, decadence, and bloodshed the Roman Empire ever produced. And to be honest, you’re not wrong. Did all of this bad behavior infect his romantic relationships as well? Oh, you bet. When his own mother disapproved of one of his mistresses (honestly, what did he expect?), he had her killed. His own mother.
The next target for his dirty tricks? His wife, of course.
30. He Was Ruthless
Does it count as a messy breakup if Nero circumvented the whole divorce thing by choosing murder instead? In 62 AD, he had his wife Octavia killed on the (probably false) grounds of adultery. One account of the story tells us that Nero couldn’t even get anyone to confess to sleeping with the Empress, so he bribed someone to confess as an excuse to kill her.
31. He Repeated The Pattern
Did Nero learn a lesson from this? Not at all. Next, he tied the knot with a woman named Poppaea Sabina. Poppaea was pregnant when she got into a fight with Nero, and in the heat of the moment, he kicked her in the belly. His attack took her life and that of her unborn child. At least this time, Nero mourned—but he did it in the weirdest way possible. Nero had one of the boys that he kept around castrated and then married him. The boy was said to have an uncanny resemblance to Poppaea.
Speaking of complete and utter perversion…ever heard of the Borgias?
32. When A Borgia Dumped Him, He Struck Back
It’s tough when no one in your family likes your partner, but at least they never tried to kill them in cold blood. Not so with Lucrezia Borgia, one of the more notorious members of the infamous Italian Renaissance family. Her relatives set her up with the politically useful Giovanni Sforza, but quickly changed their minds when his stock went down.
33. She Helped Him Escape
For some of us, this would mean a pretty bummer divorce. For Lucrezia’s trigger-happy family, it meant they had to violently dispose of their ex-son-in-law. Luckily, Lucrezia got wind of this plan and told Giovanni, who escaped Rome with his life. Unluckily, Sforza then paid his ex-wife back with some of the cruelest words in history…
34. He Made A Disturbing Accusation
After finding themselves unable to stick Giovanni Sforza with the pointy end, the Borgias settled for trying to get him to sign an annulment. The ticked-off Giovanni took this opportunity to say “heck no,” and then also accuse his ex-wife Lucrezia of a chilling deed: sleeping with her own father. Well, that’s one way to say goodbye. The Borgias finally got Giovanni on board by offering to give him Lucrezia’s considerable dowry as compensation, but they are synonymous with the dark tale to this day.
What’s worse, accusations of Oedipal love or Prince Charles’ secret phone calls to Camilla? You be the judge…
35. The Divorce Of The Century
We’d be remiss to make this list and not add the split that can rightfully be called “the divorce of the century”—that between Prince Charles and Princess Diana. They were the golden couple…or, at least it seemed like it. When the reality of their relationship came to light, people were absolutely shocked. And really, it all began long before they even met each other…
36. She Had An Unhappy Home
Diana did not grow up with a healthy idea of marriage. It was only as an adult that she revealed the extent of her parents’ unhappy marriage and her own heartbreaking childhood. The Princess said that her parents divorced because of cheating and, even worse, physical mistreatment. After their marriage ended, Diana was sent away to boarding school. She was just 12 years old.
37. She Wasn’t His First Spencer
Diana was first introduced to Charles, Prince of Wales in November 1977 through her older sister, Lady Sarah. Three years later, Charles began wooing Diana in 1980. The royal pair had Lady Sarah’s blessing, and upon their engagement, she remarked, “I introduced them. I’m Cupid.” But that’s not exactly the whole story. Sarah and Charles had a fling earlier on, meaning Diana got her big sis’ sloppy seconds.
38. It Was A Crowded Marriage
Despite Charles and Diana’s beautiful wedding, their marriage would be marked by profound unhappiness. Charles was still strangely close to an ex-girlfriend named Camilla and, in one of the most notorious revelations about the royal family, the true nature of their relationship would be revealed to all. When Diana and Charles were still married, a mysterious person recorded a secret phone call between Charles and Camilla.
In it, they are frank about their attraction to each other, with Charles saying that he wants to be as close to Camilla as her tampons. Ouch and also, gross.
39. There Was A Sense Of Impending Doom
Only five years into the marriage of Charles and Diana, cracks began to show. The almost 13-year differences in ages between the two, plus Charles’ possibly-too-close friendship with Camilla Parker-Bowles became visibly damaging to their marriage. In a famous quip, Diana sadly said, “There were three of us in this marriage, so it was a bit crowded.”
40. She Stepped Out Too
As young Princess Diana struggled with her husband’s infidelities, she sought comfort in the arms of James Hewitt, a cavalry officer. Hewitt and the Princess saw each other for five years between 1986 to 1991, but even after Diana confirmed the affair in an interview, the scandalous couple had more secrets in store. Hewitt was so devastated by their break-up that he contemplated taking his own life.
Even more controversial, to this day, people wonder if the redheaded Hewitt might be Prince Harry’s father, though both Hewitt and Diana deny the idea.
41. They Said “I Don’t”
You’d think that prim and proper Queen Elizabeth II would do everything in her power to prevent a messy, public divorce between her heir and his wife. Well, the media reports about both Charles’ and Diana’s infidelities was so bad, the queen was driven to her breaking point. She ended up writing each of them a letter with one chilling demand. The Queen urged Diana and Charles to get a divorce. By August of 1996, her will was done. The young couple went their separate ways after a notoriously stressful marriage.
Mostly, it seemed marked by sadness, instead of any contempt. The same can’t be said for the Countess of Castiglione…
42. The Countess Of Castiglione Was The World’s Meanest Ex
Virginia Oldoini—known better to history as the Countess of Castiglione—was mad, bad, and dangerous to know. The Italian aristocrat’s legendary beauty and photographic misadventures turned her into the world’s first model, but that’s not what made her INfamous. Her bedroom exploits and passionate love affairs gone wrong are what make her story unforgettable.
43. She Was A Child Bride
When Virginia was just 17 years old, her parents wasted no time in marrying her off to Francesco Verasis, the Count of Castiglione. Although the union gave Virginia the name we know her by today, it didn’t give her a whole lot else. The count was 12 years older than the girl, and not much of a looker. But it only got worse.
44. She Stayed In Her Marriage For A Heartbreaking Reason
There was one, and just exactly one, bright spot in Virginia’s marriage to her fuddy-duddy count: Their son together, Giorgio. Oldoini doted on the boy as only a rich mommy can, pouring all her own frustrated hopes and dreams into him. Giorgio, in turn, adored her. Which makes the countess’ infamous act of revenge all the more savage.
45. Her “First Time” Was Scandalous
Right before her arranged marriage to the older count, Oldoini sowed her wild oats, and then some. The young girl reportedly embarked on a steamy affair with a hunky naval officer right before tying the knot, which suggests the soon-to-be notorious courtesan desired things beyond domestic bliss from the very beginning.
46. She Took Her Husband’s Money
Before long, the Countess was caught up in a passionate affair with Napoleon III. And although infidelity is certainly close to #1 on the list of marital sins, the Countess of Castiglione didn’t stop there. Aside from taking up with Napoleon in full view of her husband Francesco, the countess also literally bankrupted the man with her expensive tastes. Hey, you think a face that beautiful comes for free?
47. Her Count Abandoned Her
In 1857, barely a year after the well-heeled couple traveled to Paris, Count Francesco left court for his native Italy in a huff, leaving his young, impressionable wife behind. The separation wasn’t just an idle threat, either. He later scrawled furiously: “Our separation is irrevocable.” As we’ll see later, though, Francesco wasn’t even done yet…
48. Her Husband Tried to Punish Her
Sometime during her separation proceedings, the Countess of Castiglione’s estranged husband decided to ramp up the bitterness and do something truly horrific. He tried to claim custody of their only son Giorgio, using his wife’s lavish lifestyle as proof of her bad mothering. The countess’s response was swift and brutal.
49. She Gave A Cruel Payback
When Francesco tried to claim custody of her only beloved son Giorgio, the Countess of Castiglione didn’t take it lying down. Instead, she sent her ex a “present” in the mail. When he opened it, he was horrified. It was a seemingly innocent photograph of the beautiful countess dressed up in a luxurious gown—but when the count looked closer, his blood ran cold.
50. She Threatened Her Ex
Oldoini’s photograph was a warning shot to her estranged husband: In the portrait, the well-dressed countess was also holding a knife in her hand, half-hidden in the folds of her dress. The best part? She titled the photo “La Vengeance,” just to make her message extra clear. Wouldn’t you know, she got custody of Giorgio for the rest of his life.
Threatening a child is beyond the pale—but she obviously didn’t act on it. Unfortunately for Wanrong, empress consort of China, her husband did…
51. The Last Empress Of China Lost Everything She Loved
When Wanrong became the Empress of China, she was already ruling over a ghost land. In a matter of months, her country abolished the monarchy, turning all Wanrong’s decadent pleasures into dust. Somehow, though, this was just the beginning of her tragic tale. By the end of her life, Wanrong would lose her husband, her crown, her child, and most infamously of all, her sanity.
52. Her Family Wanted Her To Rule The World
In 1922, when Wanrong was still only 16 years old, the teenaged Emperor Puyi of China started looking for a bride. Although Puyi was technically not Emperor anymore, having been overthrown for the Republic of China in 1911, he was still allowed to live in stateliness and splendor in the Forbidden City. Accordingly, Wanrong’s ambitious family put her forward in a bridal bid…only, this was no fairy tale.
53. Her Emperor Was A Psychopath
In addition to his major case of rich kid syndrome, Puyi also had a terrifying dark side. He was notorious for his cruelty and loved to torment the eunuchs who served him. He particularly loved to flog the poor souls, despite repeated pleadings from his counselors to go easy on them. As Puyi himself later confessed, “My cruelty and love of wielding power were already too firmly set for persuasion to have any effect on me.” Run girl, RUN.
54. Their Wedding Night Was Disturbing
Wanrong’s marriage to Puyi seemed doomed from the start. He had little interest in her, and he even married a secondary bride on the same day he made Wanrong his official consort. After both wedding ceremonies were over, the two brides and the Emperor made their way over to the Palace of Earthly Tranquillity inside the Forbidden City.
This is where Emperors had traditionally consummated their marriages in the domineering Dragon Bed, and Puyi now had not one but two blushing brides on his mattress. That’s when it took a bizarre turn.
55. She Repulsed Her Husband
It’s a matter of official historical record that when Emperor Puyi gazed upon Wanrong and Wenxiu, he…turned tail and ran like the dickens out of the room. Now, this is somewhat to be expected—and even preferred—given that they were all a bunch of inexperienced teenagers. But historians suggest an even more unsettling reason for Puyi’s actions.
56. Her Emperor Had Violent Tastes
Today, many experts believe that Emperor Puyi harbored gay or bi desires, but was forced to display more culturally acceptable tendencies. Which, well, would suck. But don’t go getting too empathetic for the guy: Puyi liked to show his love by hiring and then sodomizing pageboys, and he also had a really big thing for very young girls, which explains the 12-year-old concubine.
Yep, this was the guy Wanrong married. I mean, how could it get worse? …Right?
57. She Was Pushed To Her Limit
In truth, Wanrong was suffering from her own issues without taking on her husband’s baggage. The Forbidden City was a stifling, formal nightmare, and the young girl had to learn a litany of new rules, traditions, and etiquette to keep up with what the court expected. Things began to unravel—and fast. Around this time, the still-teenaged Wanrong took up smoking opium as a casual habit.
It was widely accepted at the time—but that didn’t mean that it didn’t go wrong for her. To make matters worse, a coup exiled the couple from the Forbidden City. Puyi then moved them to Japan…and straight to their breaking point.
58. She Tried To Flee
Poor Wanrong was seriously reconsidering her commitment to her marriage, so much so that she attempted to become a runaway Empress and flee from Manchukuo. Uh, multiple times. Practically any official who happened to come to the state around this time got a desperate visit from the consort, begging them to secret her out. If only she had escaped, her fate might have been much different.
59. She Betrayed Her Husband
When all her chances for freedom and happiness slipped from her fingers, Wanrong rebelled in a much more scandalous way. Bored and lonely, the Empress struck up an affair with two of Puyi’s aides, a man named Li Tiyu and another named Qi Jizhong. I mean, it wasn’t like Puyi was paying attention to her. But as anyone could tell you, our girl was playing a dangerous game.
60. She Had A Secret Love Child
In 1940, Empress Wanrong received utterly shocking news. After years of her childless and icy marriage, she was pregnant…and the baby was most certainly not Puyi’s. Instead, one of her steamy dalliances with Li Tiyu had landed her with a bun in the oven, and now the Empress had to face the music. What ensued was a tragedy worthy of the opera.
61. Her Daughter Suffered A Horrible Fate
Instead of helping out his wife in any way, Emperor Puyi committed one of the most horrific betrayals in Chinese history. The moment the baby, a little daughter, was born, the Emperor ignored Wanrong’s wishes entirely, and instead had his aides snatch the girl from her mother’s breast and then kill the newborn. Yes, really. And he wasn’t finished.
62. Her Husband May Have Told Her A Huge Lie
According to one version of events, Puyi never even told Wanrong about the true fate of her baby. Right after her childbirth, he whisked her away to the hospital without her daughter, and when she came back, he lied and said that he was having an outside nanny look after the newborn. Thing is, this option is so much better than what really might have happened…
Other sources claim that instead of keeping the truth from Wanrong, Puyi mercilessly let it all hang out. The Empress’s response was gut-wrenching.
63. The Truth About Her Daughter Broke Her
Riddled with grief over the loss of her innocent child, some people say Wanrong gave in completely to opium, existing in a numbed state for the rest of her life. That life would not last much longer. Puyi abandoned her, and she attempted to flee to Korea only to have authorities throw her in prison. There, she finally expired from malnutrition and the effects of her withdrawal from opium.
Living in exile does not do a girl well—and Wanrong’s sad end is up there with the tragic fate of Korea’s last princess, Deokhye…
64. The Tragic Story Of Korea’s Last Princess
We often imagine princesses leading charmed lives filled with romance, adventure and riches. However, this was not the case for Deokhye, the last princess of Korea. At a young age, she endured discrimination, exile, and the loss of her parents. People in Korea adored her, but her Japanese captors hoped to quell her power as a symbol for her people. One of the ways they did this was by engineering her marriage.
On the surface, it seemed like a fairy tale: She was a beautiful princess, and her betrothed was a handsome count. But behind the scenes, it was an actual nightmare.
65. Her Marriage Was Extremely Unhappy
Deokhye suffered from schizophrenia, and the constant upheaval of her early life didn’t exactly send her on the path to happiness and stability. Still, at first, her husband Count Takeyuki tried to make her happy despite the circumstances. Eventually, a dark reality set in. The treatment for her mental illness was incredibly expensive, even for a pair of nobles. She was frequently institutionalized, and she missed some of their daughter’s formative years as a result.
Japan’s loss in WWII made things even more dire, as the Count lost his noble title in its aftermath. But the worst was yet to come…
66. Her Husband Gave Up
In the end, the Count called time on his marriage to Deokhye. They’d had a few good years together, but for the most part, these two had been unhappy for a very long time. The pair called it quits eventually and got a divorce in 1953. At that time, any divorce was going to be scandalous—but the Count and Deokhye’s break-up was more dramatic than most…
67. Her Husband Dumped Her In The Cruelest Way Possible
Count Takeyuki dumped poor Deokhye in the worst possible way. He did it while she was in the hospital undergoing treatment for her plummeting mental health. So much for tact! And to pour salt on his ex-wife’s wounded heart, the Count struck up another romantic relationship very soon after leaving Deokhye in the hospital. Yeesh. He may have moved on, but things weren’t so easy for Deokhye…
68. Her Daughter Disappeared
Deokhye’s life was continuing to spiral downwards as she endured her divorce and constant hospitalizations, but at least she took some relief from the fact that her daughter was doing very well. She graduated from university with a degree in literature and got married in 1955. However, in the end, both Deokhye and her daughter couldn’t escape the curse of unhappiness…
Now we come to one of the most jaw-dropping parts of Princess Deokhye’s already dramatic life. One day, Deokhye’s daughter just up and disappeared.
69. She Couldn’t Recover From It All
As the days turned into weeks, the hope that Masae would reappear at home started dwindling. After enough time passed, Deokhye had to accept that her daughter would never return—for a tragic reason. Many people believe that Masae took her own life, driven by grief over her parents’ divorce. Then, for awhile, Deokhye herself disappeared.
When the new South Koren government found her, she was in a mental hospital. Though she was finally able to return home after 38 years in exile, she was never the same. Exile and struggle also marked the story of one of the Middle Age’s worst splits, that of Matilda of Tuscany and her ill-fated husband…
70. Matilda Of Tuscany Brought Her Husband To His Knees
Many of these breakups are so brutal precisely because they came from a once beautiful and loving relationship. Not so with Matilda of Tuscany. She was already a powerful warrior in her own right when her stepfather arranged her marriage with his son, Godfrey the Hunchbacked. She eventually acquiesced in order to protect the papacy in Rome. Unfortunately, Matilda and her new husband just didn’t have much in common.
They differed in matters of religion, and his physical deformity only fueled their dislike of one another. The two always seemed on the verge of calling it quits, until a family tragedy finally tore them apart.
71. He Wouldn’t Let Her Go
Matilda became pregnant and gave birth to a little girl around 1071. Sadly, the baby only lived for a few weeks. The heartbreaking event drove an even deeper wedge between Matilda and her husband, and eventually, Matilda separated from him entirely. She returned to her mother, and began strengthening her ties to Italy. He found her, hoping to reconcile, but she told him she wanted a divorce and to become a nun.
He then made a deal behind her back to ensure that they’d never be granted their divorce. And then, he added insult to injury.
72. He Lied About Her
Godfrey’s betrayal left Matilda smack dab in the middle of an ongoing battle between the Pope and the Holy Roman Emperor. Many believe that Godfrey was also the source of a rumor about an affair between Matilda and the Pope—one that could’ve had devastating consequences. However, before she could respond, Matilda finally got to see karma strike her detestable husband down.
73. Someone Took Out Her Husband
On February 27, 1076, Matilda’s husband was—ahem—”answering the call of nature” when someone ran him through with a spear. All fingers immediately pointed to Matilda, who had every reason to hate her husband. Since Matilda wasn’t present at the time, and couldn’t have known about the accusations he’d made yet, this was unlikely. Still, his loss left her even more stuck in between the ongoing struggle between the Pope and the Emperor—one that would sadly plague her for the rest of her life and lead to the dissolution of her family’s realm.
And it all started with one Medieval fix-up gone wrong! If only they’d learned a lesson here. Three centuries later, the English throne came under threat thanks to a similar—if even more toxic—mismatch.
74. Edward And Isabella Truly Hated Each Other
When the handsome King Edward II of England married the beautiful Princess Isabella of France, people called it a fairy tale—but it was really a horror story. See, Edward II already was way more interested in someone else: his BFF and courtier Piers Gaveston. Edward and Isabella finally pulled the trigger after a long engagement (one his father tried to get him out of) in 1308. It quickly turned into a disaster.
In a disturbing portent for their entire marriage, Edward decided not to sit next to his child bride at the ceremony, but cozied up to Gaveston instead. The snub insulted Isabella’s entire family in one fell swoop. Iconique. Oh, and there’s a kicker.
