♡ positive ♡
think of all the things you're good at and things you've accomplished in your life! example: i am a good writer, and in in sixth grade i won my class spelling bee.
♡ Negative ♡
you are your own worst critic. think of how and when you judge yourself. what are all of the Negative Things in your life?
example: i always cringe when i hear myself sing and i'll never be good at math.
♡ the other people ♡
when you're making a decision, you shouldn't let people that you aren't close to or you don't look up to affect your judgement on how you should act. the only opinions that matter are friends and family. if they continually criticize you, tell them you didn't ask for their opinion.
♡ all of these flaws ♡
sometimes we have changeable flaws. if you self conscious about your manners or your weight (which isn't even a flaw!!!!!!) you can always find a safe and healthy way to change. if you're self conscious about you're height or something you can't change, you just have to accept you can't change these! make a list of the negative things in your life that you can turn positive and a list of negative things in your life you can't change, but try to make the positive!
♡ you are not a freak ♡
sometimes when we're struggling to find our identity, we consider ourselves as outsiders. you have to learn we can't change what makes us unique and special in our own way. you are beautiful, handsome, and you :) and that's all anyone could ask for
I love you all
Love Han x
