When it comes to dating and looking for a suitable partner, men are usually in jitters and wonder what a woman wants in her man. They secretly wish that they could have a checklist of traits that a woman looks for in a prospective suitor. 99% of Men believe that physical appearance is the primary attribute that gets a woman hooked. It’s no wonder then that men spend a majority of their time on enhancing the way they look. Appearing attractive is not limited to sporting the latest apparels and accessories but men are also seen paying visits to salons for facials and other beauty treatments.

But if someone ever asked Women, what according to them is the most wanted trait in men, looks definitely do not top the charts. I agree that physical attraction is the first point of contact between two unknown individuals, but that doesn’t take a relationship further. Women are actually attracted to finer traits in men. Have a look.

A Good Sense Of Humour

Men who know how to take things in a lighter vain; those who can see the funnier side of a situation and are even capable of making fun of themselves; and talking to whom always freshens you up , are said to have a great sense of humour. Such men easily attract people of both sexes and are always surrounded by friends and colleagues looking for a few light moments. They are also the life of any party and gathering. Their wit and presence of mind is what attracts women towards them. Life isn’t a bed of roses but having a partner who makes it seem so, is definitely in great demand.

A Secure Job

As they say, love alone cannot help you to stay alive and it’s money that makes the world go round. Life is definitely more fun to live if one is financially sound and do not always have to worry about money. Not only are women monetarily independent today but are placed in great jobs. It is natural for them to aspire for a partner, having a Secure Job is looked at as extremely important. Just as it is important for dating couples to have similar likes and dislikes it is also imperative that their work ethics and lifestyle is somewhat alike.

Good With Kids

Do not get wrong ideas in your head men! If she likes men who are good with kids, she is not looking for a long term future with you. It’s just a trait that shows how kind you are and give a glimpse into the softer side in you. Men who are good with kids are also sensitive and would be generous with gifting, which is considered an absolutely must-have trait in men.

So now that you managed a little sneak-peek into the hearts of women through my blog,, you must be more at ease with yourself and be better equipped for your next date. However, there is one last word of caution: Just be yourself and you are sure to win hearts.