Kyu world ladki or ladke ko alag alag mirror me dekhta h

Ek ladka kyu ladki sirf aapne enjoyment ke liye use kerta h, uske baad woh bina uski condition ko samjhe, uske Pain ko samjhe usko beech raste per chod jaata h, jaha na toh uske in laws usse aapnate h kyuki uske pati ki soch bhi unn ladko jaise hoti h aur aapne mayake woh jaa nhi sakti kyuki aapne parents ka proud woh already kho chuki h, woh uss depression me akele reh jaati h... 

Yeh log kyu bhul jaate h, ki woh bhi unke jaisi hi bhagwaan ki ek rachna h, jo already itne exams dey Rahi h, jo sansar rach rahi h, iss sarasti ko rach rahi h aur to aur tumhe rach rahi h, woh 9 months ka pain, mood swings woh sab manage ker rahi h tumhare liye, woh bachpaan se yeh sunn ke badi ho rahi h ki tumhe kisi aur ke ghar jaana h, 

Aur fir woh bahu banker ek nayi makaan me aa rahi h aapne parents ko life time ke liye paraya kerke, can u imagine that pain, tum log kuch time ke liye yeh nhi ker paoge, woh periods ka pain sehker Bhi Muskura Rahi h, woh 9 months ka pain haste haste, khushi khushi seh rahi h kyuki usko uss makaan ko ghar or ghar me sansaar basana h fir woh delivery ke pain me bhi muskura rahi h... 

Do u ever imagine, her contribution in ur life.... 

Aur pati log fir bhi usse her decision me bold rehne ki, akele sab kuch manage kerne ki or unko financially support kerne ki without ignoring their family expect kerte h... Jab woh unse aapne uss weak time thoda support mangti h tab woh usko woh bhi bina express kere nhi de paate woh bhi unko force lagta h, Aur hum jo khushi khushi unke liye sab kiye jaa rahe h uska kya...