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I caused my marriage to fail, I am not the type that would blame anybody for my mistakes_Jim Iyke


The actor Claimed that the loss of his Mother was the reason his marriage ended during a conversation with media personality Chude Jideonwo. He claimed that while he was mourning the loss of his mother, he emotionally deserted his partner, who had just given birth to his first baby. Iyke went on to say that he "left his wife behind" and gave his child all of his affection.



I had a failed marriage, but nobody knows that," he declared. My three children. My divorce was due to my fault. 

I don't tend to point the finger at others when I make mistakes. There is a phrase that goes, "To boss up, own up." A part of me would prefer to choose the simpler solution. I am very good at being thoughtful and meticulous about everything I do, therefore whenever I did anything subpar in my life, I always did it while I was emotional. 

I always failed because I became really emotional. I started acting poor, so I appealed to the less emotionally intelligent, lesser man inside of me.

He mentioned in an interview that no one wanted to tell him about his mother's passing because of their strong relationship. "I couldn't find my feet for years after losing my mother," he claimed. 

I lost a connection to a way of life and my spirituality. It took them 72 hours to inform me that my mum had passed away. I recently left a job interview in London. There is usually that one family member who is the bearer of terrible news. Our family member who usually does that promised not to tell me the news because there is a good risk I won't survive.

The multiple award-winning actor said, "Just when I was getting over it, my woman was pregnant with my first son," when asked how the death of his mother had an impact on his relationship with his wife and son.

 There was no one nearby to take care of me any longer, so I had a quiet place to myself. All of a sudden, there was nothing, and I felt grief. I was devastated by the loss and had trouble sleeping for days. I wasn't the loving man she met and was upset.

Forget what people might think; I'm a goof. I am the family practical joker and the one who makes everyone laugh at the most serious situations.

 Because I start family gatherings with a joke and then my father calls me to order, they don't even invite me. I lost my sense of humour, my inner lion, and my ability to lead. She paid the price because I simply surrendered to nature. I turned into a controlling father. I gave my youngster everything I had.

I was changing diapers and acting like the good stay-at-home father. I gave him everything and left her behind. She was left behind while I gave my son all of my love and attention. 

I was a great spouse and a great father. They are white and not built like we are. After some time, she claimed, I can't remember who I married. Then, as friends, we departed. "I am here, but I am not here," I said to her. No one is present here. 

If you can wait for me, I would appreciate it; if not, I would understand. I don't know how long it would take me to recover and return to this place. She claimed she couldn't.






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