Numerous women with both inner and outer beauty are everywhere around the world. You (American or Western man) and I can find them online or in the flesh. The downfall is that most of us males have difficulty in seeking the ones who are suitable for us. Typically, we come into physical or digital contact with either attractive females who ignore/reject us or hideous or average-looking ones whom we reject. The frustration or disappointment of not finding the opposite sex with good looks, characteristics, and serious interest in us just causes us to remain single or do something better – travel abroad. Based on my experiences in Ukraine, Dominican Republic, and Colombia, I can reassure you that any man can triumph in pursuing his potential wife or girlfriend overseas. His requirements are:

• Not giving up on true love
• Keeping a positive attitude
• Developing a solid and clear strategy that concerns the fiancé visa and green card process
• Saving and spending money wisely

Asking for help from experts (e.g. matchmakers, translators, Passport brothers, and/or international couples) is optional. He can nonetheless receive wise facts from them in order to avoid (more) mistakes before, during, and after his possible vacation(s) in a third world country (e.g. Thailand or Brazil) where he can frankly get true love with the right female.

If you are candidly persistent in finding a Foreign woman who fulfills your needs, desires, etc., you need to initially learn her generation or age group. A translator, matchmaker, or another professional who is going to support and guide you during your foreign vacation can inform you about various generations/age groups based on physical features, fashion, and mindsets.

So, here are the following details that he or she can provide you for assistance in picking that special someone from the crowd:

Young Adults or Millennials

18 – 24 Years of Age

If you have a luxurious lifestyle, enjoy participating in social activities or events, or wish to stay single, you may do very well in attracting the majority of females in their late teens or early 20’s. Sadly, a large number of them is immature, inexperienced, and irresponsible. They lack the understanding, knowledge, and emotions to positively deal with marital, mental, job, financial, etc. problems. If there are 2 main reasons why many older men are still interested in being with these ladies, I would guess ‘physical attraction’ (possibly leading to sex trafficking) and ‘ease of control’ (possibly leading to abuse, manipulation, and even homicide). In fact, on YouTube, I have heard a few international dating or marriage experts discussing that Younger Ukrainian, Colombian, etc. females gain extra attention from American/Western males on romance tour socials abroad. Despite that the men are not in the same category with pedophiles, human traffickers, sex offenders, and other evildoers, the males are perhaps setting themselves up for failure of their international relationships with dishonest and gold digging females. Based on my negative experiences in Colombia, Dominican Republic, and Ukraine, I admit that I have been lied, asked to give more money, and pressured to buy expensive food/drinks on my dates. As a result, I recommend that you listen to your heart, God, and your assigned translator or matchmaker carefully. Take notes of their words and plan what you should say and do if you date young adult females abroad. If God has destined a relationship (leading to possible marriage) between you and one of them (as long as she is mature, loyal, and serious about marrying and having children with you), you should be overjoyed, at peace, and ready to take your bond with her to the next level.

Older Adults or Millennials

25 – 34 Years of Age

You may have success in searching for an actual Millennial inside this age group. She may be considered a member of Generation X due to her age. But, what matters is her maturity, responsibility, integrity, and actual intention(s) of what she really wants in her life. You can find these traits in most foreign women. They have additional experience and understanding of adulthood than their younger counterparts do. Thus, within the age group of older millennials, foreign females become absolutely aware, comfortable, and consistent of who they are and what they crave. The good news is that marriage and family are large topics and interests in their minds. Give thanks to brides.com authors (Jen Glantz and Alyson Krueger) for this certain information so that maybe you can move forward to a marital connection with a 25 year old lady or older.

Middle-Aged Adults

35 – 44 Years of Age

This age group is capable of relating to the 2 previous and younger age groups when it comes to video games, computers, technology, music, and the Internet. Many individuals who are between mid-30’s and mid-40’s have been born or raised around the same time those subjects have emerged or become popular. Consequently, if you wish to discuss, question, or participate in a fun activity concerning any of those subjects, a middle-aged foreign lady may have the same interest that you do as well. Whether you are younger or older than she is, you can still build a happy, healthy, and stable relationship with her. To her generation, age is just a number unless you are under 25 or perhaps over 60. If she starts thinking of you as her son or younger brother (if you are under 25 years of age) or her father or grandfather (if you are over 60 years of age), she may pick any of these 2 options:

• Being (more) honest, changing her point of view, and growing her relationship with you
• Becoming weird, distancing herself from you, and moving forward to someone else around her age

So, if you are not in her age group, please:

• Remain positive
• Empathize to her needs, desires, and feelings
• Highlight marriage and family as the core of her attention or interest

She can therefore overlook your physical appearance plus visualize you in the same page with her mentally.

Senior Adults

45 Years of Age or Older

Females inside this generation may be the most experienced regarding maturity, monogamy, motherhood, business, etc. Howbeit, they may be considered the least attractive or desirable ones by many men. If I can guess 2 reasons for this unfortunate fact, ‘wrinkles’ and ‘grey hair’ come to my mind. Hundreds, thousands, or perhaps millions of men may become repulsed or disinterested if they encounter or even see unattractive body features of their senior girlfriends or wives. Consequently, the males may be tempted to leave or cheat with the younger and flawless looking ladies. If you, however, disregard aging features and care more about the characteristics, behaviors, etc. of elder ladies, then you are able to build a successful connection with one of them. Even if you both remain unmarried or choose to just be friends, she would forever appreciate you as a man and know that another man would love and accept her unconditionally.

Many senior females are brilliant in advancing their education, careers, businesses, etc. The problem is that some can be (very) stubborn when it comes to their ideas, techniques, feelings, and/or thoughts. If you want to still bond with any of them, be willing to do what she wishes, believes, or feels comfortable in doing. Let her know that you are reasonable to her mentality even if she remains unreasonable to yours. Also, accept the way she thinks or perceives whether you understand/agree with her or not. If you are in the same age group with her, maybe dealing with her positively would become a piece of cake. But, if you are 35 or younger, please have similar personality qualities that she has and become the man whom she adores and respects. Wishing to become her husband and perhaps a father (or stepfather if she already has kid(s)) is a big advantage. Your May-December romance with her can inspire and support other foreign ladies in seeking their God-given husbands or boyfriends internationally too.

Conclusion

There is that saying “Age is just a number”. However, age does matter concerning maturity, respect for humanity, skills, and chiefly a sincere relationship with a woman outside your age group. You have a better chance to build a rapport with her if you are in her generation. But, the result may differ if you both are in different age groups. Do not be surprised of the tough challenges/obstacles that can destroy or end your special bond forever.

It is normal to face the fear of becoming older. Death, loneliness, physical disability, or a severe illness (e.g. cancer or diabetes) may come to the minds of numerous individuals. In spite of that possibility, according to an article on “Second Wind Movement” website, they can overcome negative thoughts of aging by focusing on the present and future times. They need to enjoy today because of the time they have left on this planet particularly with their relatives and friends. Next, they need to create a solid legacy that can repeatedly prove and remind them of their:

• Existence
• Significance
• Support and care for the needs of their children, grandchildren, and other loved ones

Whether we like it or not, aging is a part of our lives.

Life is a gift or blessing from God to us and other people.

We must thus use all of it for accomplishment of our specific purposes and goals and determination to help others in need.

Do what other men refuse to do or choose to be scared of doing.

Take a journey in a non-Westernized nation (e.g. Ukraine, Philippines, or Costa Rica) and find your exquisite lady without giving up.

Look past her age, culture, race, background, etc.

If your connection with her takes you both to a higher level, ask her about getting married and living together in your country (e.g. United States).

Plan and seek personal and professional help and advice regarding the fiancé visa and green card processes.

Finally, while both of you are aging and sharing the remainder of your lives, you both would become inseparable and young at heart.