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Being dependent - It's painful.

Hello friends!

It is really very difficult for someone to be dependent. Here, dependent means, a person who cannot earn his livelihood and becomes dependent on others. Here, others mean, someone very close, may be parents, brothers or even very good friends etc. Dependence comes for not being very careful about making one's career. You  observe very carefully, you will find that proper education comes in front of you. I have seen that young people leave education in the midway. There may be reasons behind it. One may be poverty in the family and the other is extreme ignorance about the bounces of life and at the same time being greedy to start life of enjoyment independently and early.

Both become unhappy and become dependent intermittently
on someone. At a later stage they realise their mistakes. It is
true that no parents want their children to suffer in life. Usually, they sacrifice so many things in the lives for upbringing their children. So, when they find their children unhappy, they also loose their peace of mind. They cry from within but cannot say anything as their children took their lives very easily.

Above, I have written about two categories of probable dependents. Many become dependents forcefully having no fault of them by being victims of accidents or a serious diseases. Lives of this category of people are really really painful. At least, I feel too much pain in my mind whenever or wherever I find any one of them. I cannot do anything for them but I pray for them to the Almighty to give them enormous mental power. It is really pitious. I further pray so that good senses can prevail on the people on whom the person is dependent.

Now, I'm writing about the dependence, which comes in normal course and that is dependence due to old age. This condition is also very pitious. Imagine, a person who was active, participatory, earning, enjoying life nonstop, doing duties to his family, has become alone and lonely as his health is leaving him gradually. He is a different man altogether with the same old mind with a worn out health. Often he is neglected and avoided, But one should know that an old man is a mine of knowledge and information.

Whatever may be the category of dependents, no one is happy and comfortable. Any dependence is painful. One should always try to avoid such a situation in life.

I would like to end here today. Thanks for your time and patience. Bye for now. My regards for you all.

Kalyan Ghosh.
 Beautiful nature.

 Talk of a great soul.

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