I’m the person that can be walked over, stepped on, yelled at, ignored and in the end I will say, “it’s okay.”  Well, it’s not okay. I must stand up fpr myself but I don’t even know how or where to start.

I was raised with a suck-it-up-buttercup type of thinking. Growing up like that makes it difficult for me to support someones Wallowing. Even when that wallowing is my perception and their reality is a feeling of dispair.