I truly truly believe you can have whatever it is you want in this world. I think a lot of times we don't go after our dreams because we are A) unsure of how bad we really want it, B) Are scared of failure, and C) We see others doing it and we don't know how we would be any different than them, so why even bother. I feel that I'm partway past the first two, but I am now working on the last one so I can finally reach my goals and dreams. Sometimes we see someone else, doing what we want to do and being successful at it so we get discouraged. Instead of being down on yourself or jealous or whatever, bemotivated. As for "being different", try just being Authentic and that's good enough. As long as you are being authentic, you will always be different and THAT'S how you will make your success. There is enough success in this world to go around, so let's not look at someone else's success as an indication of less opportunity for us. Success is Limitless, there is always room for you and your dreams.