Why do some men who perhaps aren’t exactly Brad Pitt, seem to be so attractive to women? The answer is Confidence – every time. The same reason men like it when a girl makes the first move. I have heard it said so many times, “Women don’t like nice guys.” That’s not it. Women do not like clingy guys, needy guys. Women like a man who seems like he is in control, he could rescue her while at the same time letting her be a strong woman. Confusing? It should not be. Just have confidence. Don’t be so nice that the woman thinks you are weak. Now do not misunderstand, confidence does not equate being a bad guy. Just give a little room for the chase but yes, call when you say you will call. And whatever you do, don’t let a woman walk all over you either. If you do that, she will. But if you act like of course you like her, you want to be with her, however she is not your only option if decides to treat you poorly, then well, that’s speaks confidence. I guarantee she will be saying to her friends, “I don’t know, there’s just something about him.”

Shhh. Don’t tell her you read this…