Dear Readers,

I have always wondered what it is like to be a man. You can wear what you want, you can do what you want, you are the 1st priority in the family as you earn for the family. You choose the girl to marry and give her a life. You are her need to survive in life. My point is,” A wives life revolves around a man all her life”. It kept me thinking about myself that what kind of Women am I,” A women that need a man or women that a man needs?”

I feel I am not the princess that needs saving, I am a queen and I got this shit handled. I am not someone who can be controlled. I want someone who will watch me do my thing and be like,” That’s my girl”. I somehow believe in the fact,” A week man cannot love Strong women. He won’t know what to do with her”. Of course, I am not worried about intimidating men. The type of man who will be intimidated by me is the exactly the type of man I have no interest in. Funny thing about real women,” They don’t need you, they want you and if you start slacking they can be content without you”. A strong Woman will automatically stop trying if she feels unwanted. She won’t fix it or beg she will just walk away.

I am a woman. I am not perfect. I am sometimes selfish. Occasionally self-destructive and prone to very brief, yet severe, spells of sadness. But I would fight until every bone in my body was broken to protect my loved once and that’s a promise. I need no fancy clothes to make me look sexy. I need no man by my side to make me look sturdy. I don’t need to tell lies, my honesty is my beauty. I am smart in my head and have a lot of courage in my heart. I have confidence with-in myself and I am compassionate in my thoughts. I am independent, able, strong and graceful in any situation life shows me.

In life, sometimes you will just be too much woman, too smart, too beautiful, too strong, too much of something. That makes a man feel like a less of a man. Will start making you feel like you have to be a less of a woman. The biggest mistake you can make is removing jewels from your crown to make it easier for a man to carry. When it happens, I need you to understand, you do not need a smaller crown…… You need a man with bigger hands.

“Dear women, you don’t find your worth in a man. You find your worth within yourself and then find a man who’s worthy of you. Remember that.”

Regards,
Swati Chaurasia