I just found out recently that I have been cheated on by my Husband. We are going on 28 years of marriage in October. At first I thought it was only for the past 3 years but after discussing (for some reason I need to know everything about it) I found out that he has been “friends” with her for 7-8 years and in a physical relationship for more like 4-5 years. I cannot wrap my head around the fact that it went on for that long, when I thought my life was fine (not perfect by any means) but happy!! I look back and question my entire life now.
I love my husband and want to work through this - am I crazy??
Yes I am very hurt, having panic attacks, etc. But I still want to be with him. He has cut off all ties to her at this point. But for some reason I haven’t broken down and confronted him like you would think I should. Am I holding it all in, how can I deal with this so it won’t come out later?
Has anyone been in this position? Suggestions?
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