So I (21F) have been trying to have sex with my boyfriend (22M). He is my first ever boyfriend I am a virgin and he is slightly more experienced than I am with sex.

As I got more comfortable doing sexual things such as fingering, I decided I wanted to have sex with him. We tried but he can never get it past the tip. I went to the doctors to check for vaginismus, but after a physical examination at the doctors there’s nothing wrong with me physically. And I’ve never really had any pain when trying sex. So it’s a mental block.

I do get a little anxious about sex, purely because I’ve never done it before and the thought of getting pregnant scares me (We use a condom). He is also quite large lengthwise so it is a little intimidating. He is nothing but supportive, however I know this is something I need to work on to relax myself. I’ve tried to relax during these moments but I’m not too sure how to do that.

Does anyone have any tips or techniques for how to relax when trying to have sex?

Thank you!

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