I’ve always had a wild, free Spirit and I am so thankful for that! That spirit has allowed me to have the courage to take calculated risks and to go for things that I think most people are afraid of. An example of this was when I was eighteen. At the time I was a serious tennis player and was being recruited to play in college. I even had a personal trainer, Rob, who worked me out and hit with me.
I loved flirting with him, but I could never tell if he was interested or if he thought I was too young for him. I decided to let my free spirit take over. For our next workout I purposely wore thin white soccer shorts that were basically transparent. I chose a pair of Red Panties that I knew would be completely visible through my shorts.
That session was one of my all-time favorites. Even though nothing happened I could feel the energy that was flowing between us. The flow of sexual energy and pleasure energy is amazing and getting aligned with that vibration moves your life in amazing directions!
I still needed to know if I had any chance of taking our lessons beyond the court. I didn’t want to seem obvious or that I was a little girl with a big crush on her instructor--even though I was! Our next few sessions were fun and I could feel the connection growing but nothing ever happened.
My free spirit came up with another idea to gauge his interest. Once again, I got to the courts early and sat on the bench waiting for Rob. I used to love to read Cosmo back then and I was pretending to read the magazine when Rob arrived. I had found a sexy picture of me in my bikini from the previous summer. The plan was to act as if I was using that picture as my bookmark for the magazine. But I really wanted him to see it. He walked toward me and I pretended not to see him. He sat down beside me. I acted surprised. He asked what I was reading.
“And what are they thinking?'' asked Rob.
“It says they think about sex every seven seconds.”
“Sounds about right to me! Ready for your workout?”
I took my picture and placed it in the magazine making sure Rob could see it.
“Whoa! Let me see that! Where was that?”
“In Italy from last year.”
“Damn Jade, you look great!”
“You can keep it if you want.”
“Thank you! I think your article may be wrong. Your picture may cause me to think about sex every second!”
“I love that,” I said and reached over and spontaneously hugged him.
We finished the workout, but both of our minds were preoccupied with possibilities that may happen.
I ended up going to Rob’s apartment a few times before I went off to college. We had great times together. Amazing sex that I still smile about today. He had a serious girlfriend at the time and I heard they eventually married. I ran into him last year and we hugged and smiled knowing that we had pleasure-filled moments that helped make our time together special.
Life is meant to be a pleasurable experience if you allow it.
Xoxo,
Jade, The Thriving Hedonists
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