Everyone always says that the first step of the law of attraction is asking for what you want. Sounds easy, doesn’t it?  But what if you don’t really know what it is you want? Sometimes when I start thinking about things I want I start to have Conflicting Feelings. If I am thinking about a job change, I may start feeling conflicted about things such as moving, working more hours and just the unknown that comes with a job change. Even when I think about financial freedom, I can have conflicting feelings such as what will I do with my free time? Will I continue to work? Will it change my purpose in life?

What I now believe is that the conflicting feelings that occur is the Universe’s way of making sure I am clear about what I want. I think it’s okay not to work out every detail and when the conflicting feelings arise use them to get to the essence of what you want. I wanted the essence of financial freedom meaning I wanted the freedom that money brings. I don’t have to know every detail that will change because I have that freedom. But I do have to decide if I really want it or not.

I look at it as if the Universe is saying, “Okay you are asking for this, here are some things that could happen if you get it, now are you sure you still want it?” Then it is up to me to decide if I do. And if I do want it then it is up to me to let go of the details and focus on the essence of what it is I want and let Infinite Intelligence work it all out.

 --Aiden. (and Jade), The Thriving Hedonists

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