When men talk about what, outside of personality, they find super attractive about a certain woman, the list usually involves a lot of Body parts. But when women describe what they find attractive about a man, it often comes down to body language; the way he walks, the way he holds a glass, and even the way he buttons his shirt can be huge, inexplicable turn-ons. Not that a girl can’t appreciate a nice set of guns, of course, or a tall frame, but more often than not, it’s little gestures that can drive a woman wild. And what’s funny about it is that the guy doesn’t even realize he’s doing something that’s a turn-on, because that’s just how he is naturally (which, of course, is part of what makes it so hot). Herein, allow us to present a brief list of some of the non-sexual sexy things guys do that women have revealed to be huge turn-ons. And to get the other side’s perspective, check out 30 Things Women Do That Men Always Find Sexy.

1Steering the wheel with just two fingers

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When you’re in the car with a man, him doing this exudes an air of complete control. It’s like the man’s body is saying, “I don’t even have to use my whole hand. I got this.” And for more ways to up your game, learn The Single Best Way to Boost Your Attractiveness.

“It is not a lack of Love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche

“I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when I fall asleep your eyes close.”
― Pablo Neruda, 100 Love Sonnets

“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up.”
― Neil Gaiman, The Kindly Ones

“This life is what you make it. No matter what, you’re going to mess up sometimes, it’s a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you’re going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends – they’ll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, some go. The ones that stay with you through everything – they’re your true best friends. Don’t let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they’ll come and go too. And baby, I hate to say it, most of them – actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can’t give up because if you give up, you’ll never find your soulmate. You’ll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn’t mean you’re gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don’t, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life’s a beautiful thing and there’s so much to smile about.”
― Marilyn Monroe

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