2024-04-16 19:48
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In our daily lives, there are many sources of stress that we cope with regularly. Stress Awareness Month isn't so much about becoming aware of the stress… Read More
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2024-04-08 16:01
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Oftentimes, the self-help industry is criticized for being inaccessible to everyday people. There are success guru's out there telling you how you can 'easily'… Read More
2024-04-07 18:48
Across the nation and the world, not everyone has equal access to healthcare, healthy food, or safe drinking water. Without these basic needs being met, it can cause a lot of suffering fo… Read More
2024-04-07 16:02
Poetry is a literary art form that is used by many writers to thoughtfully convey ideas and feelings, often using imagery in doing so. There are many different forms that poems can take… Read More
2024-04-02 17:41
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Much of what we read in terms of Autism acceptance and awareness is focused on parents of autistic children, and the struggles that they face in parenting… Read More
2024-03-27 16:10
As women and girls, we don't always have an equal seat at the table to the men in our lives. Throughout the world, the fight for equality wages on, and women's history month is a time to te… Read More
2024-03-21 19:04
When you have chronically lived with Trauma over the course of your lifetime, or even experienced a single traumatic experience, you may develop Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) as a re… Read More
2024-03-21 16:52
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If you have ever heard the song "In the Air Tonight" by Phil Collins, you are probably aware of all the legends and myths behind the song. Although the… Read More
2024-03-15 19:13
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We all live in a selfish world, in selfish times. Returning to the United States after almost two years away, seeing how things have changed is sadden… Read More
2024-03-14 17:45
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Especially in teenage years when kids are first defining their identities, there can be pressure to talk about other people behind their backs. This can take t… Read More
2024-03-10 02:51
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Guest Post by Amos Faulkner.
Amos Faulkner wants to help people “do money well.” Money is a constant in our lives. Yet, as a bank teller, Amos realized that ma… Read More
2024-03-08 15:30
Most of us live in some sort of community, and yet, many of us don't know our neighbors or those living around us. Especially since the pandemic, but even before, people have become increas… Read More
2024-03-07 15:50
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In our society, we should be learning from a young age that we can rely on the police for help when we are the victims of a crime. However, the idea o… Read More
2024-03-05 16:07
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So often in life, we have experiences that make us feel isolated and alone. We may not have a support system where we are, especially in unfamiliar place… Read More
2024-02-26 17:25
As children are growing up, there are different developmental milestones that they are supposed to meet at each age. However, when a young child endures trauma, especially repeated trauma… Read More
2024-02-22 16:51
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I imagine that most happy, confident people look in the mirror every morning and smile. They like what they see reflected there. They love themselves and ar… Read More
2024-02-20 21:25
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When you are trying to heal your mental health, it can be easy to spend all of your time focusing on symptoms and how to improve them. However, if you ar… Read More
2024-02-19 15:32
My daughter is just learning to read, and I told her that when she does, she will never be bored again. Books can open up so many doors for us in our lives. We can learn about anything we… Read More
2024-02-18 19:19
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In this busy world of ours, sometimes we lose sight of the fact that we are spiritual beings living a human experience. But sometimes, if you… Read More
2024-02-18 16:57
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For today's tarot reading, I drew the Knight of Wands. In the tarot, Knights are cards which indicate taking decisive action. The suit of wands represents yo… Read More
2024-02-17 15:02
"They can take away something that you have, but they can't take away something that you are."
When you learn to live without the comforts and security that life typically has to offer, you… Read More
2024-02-16 17:08
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.
Reinhold Niebuhr
This morning, I offer you a p… Read More
2024-02-15 15:42
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When you read the tarot and ask for guidance, sometimes it will tell you that all the knowledge and wisdom that you need is already there, inside your o… Read More
2024-02-13 16:04
When you live with the constant aftermath of a life filled with trauma, sometimes you just want to hide in bed, pull the covers over your head, and cry out your broken heart. But the world… Read More
2024-02-12 15:02
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When you are recovering from trauma in your past, it can be difficult learning how to assert yourself and set boundaries to protect your mental health and saf… Read More
2024-02-11 18:02
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Sometimes, we forget our own self worth because or our limiting beliefs, or the opinions of others. We may feel inferior, or like nothing we can do is ri… Read More
2024-02-08 16:30
In life, we often don't have control of many of the things that are happening around us. We can't control other people's choices, or the way they react to things or how they treat us. Sinc… Read More
2024-02-07 14:26
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When you grow up with narcissistic parents, you often are fed beliefs that are far from reality. You are taught things about yourself, your life a… Read More
2024-02-06 16:53
From the time I got my first car, it gave me a sense of freedom, safety and self reliance. Being able to go where you want, when you want, is something that is really important when you hav… Read More
2024-02-05 14:22
When you are raised by narcissists, you may be nervous about raising your own children. You don't want to be the same as your own parents, or to raise your children with the same scars. Ho… Read More
2024-02-04 17:42
Sometimes, it feels like I spend half my life living inside my head with my own dark thoughts. At times like that, it is easy to become overly reliant on the people in my life to rescue me… Read More
2024-02-03 17:33
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All too often, we get caught up in worries about what other people think of us. We try to win their love through people-pleasing, and neglect our own wa… Read More
2024-01-24 03:57
From the time we are children, we are taught to compete with each other for resources. Competitiveness teaches us that we need to strive to be 'better' than others. It teaches us that we a… Read More
2024-01-22 13:54
If you feel anxious much of the time, your anxious thoughts can easily overtake your life and stop you from doing things that you enjoy. When your anxiety is taking control of your work, re… Read More
2024-01-20 17:42
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When you are raised by narcissistic parents, you feel trapped in your home, with no escape. You are afraid of the very people who are supposed to love yo… Read More
2024-01-19 18:07
When you grow up with a narcissistic parent, your upbringing is far from normal. You probably didn't have a happy childhood, and learned to cope as best as you could. This can lead to diff… Read More
2024-01-18 16:19
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When the 9 of Wands appears in a reading, it represents courage, resilience, faith and boundaries. You have been tested many times along your path, but take… Read More
2024-01-17 16:56
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They say, money doesn't buy happiness. Yet we live in a capitalistic society that has taught us otherwise for generations. Parents teach children that you need… Read More
2024-01-16 16:21
When you are enmeshed in your worldly life, you constantly suffer. This is the teaching of the Buddha. Yet, you also have the capacity to free yourself of suffering. You have the Buddha n… Read More
2024-01-16 15:23
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When you see the Queen of Pentacles in a tarot reading, it means that you are working to create financial security for your family. This queen represents so… Read More
2024-01-14 17:49
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When the Magician appears in a reading, it is a very positive sign that you have the power within you to manifest your desires into reality. The Magician… Read More
2024-01-12 16:15
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Usually, when I do these daily tarot readings, I just pull one card. But today, I had two of them jump out at me while I was shuffling. That shows me that t… Read More
2024-01-11 17:52
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Sometimes in life, things don't go your way. You take on something new that seems like it will be the best thing that ever happened to you, only to re… Read More
2024-01-11 16:28
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In the tarot deck, the Queen of Cups represents a nurturing mother who is in tune with her emotions, and the emotions of those around her. Receiving this… Read More
2024-01-10 16:51
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Every time the new year rolls around, you see people posting all over social media about their new year's resolutions, their word of the year, and their a… Read More
2024-01-10 15:48
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Receiving the 9 of Cups in a tarot reading is a very positive sign. This card represents contentment, gratitude and wishes coming true. If there is somethin… Read More
2024-01-09 18:44
When you grow up with a narcissistic parent, your family life is difficult, to say the least. Even as an adult, this is unlikely to change. Your narcissistic parent is likely to treat you… Read More
2024-01-09 17:26
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In a tarot reading, the Hierophant represents spiritual knowledge, religious beliefs and traditions. This is an indication that you are embarking on a… Read More
2024-01-08 18:55
Humans are social beings. We all crave a sense of connection and belonging. And yet, how many of us stay too long in places or relationships where we aren't being valued? This has a tende… Read More
2024-01-06 16:45
It can be easy for us to get caught up on living in the past, especially if things have happened that leave us suffering emotional pain. We live with our regrets, we ruminate, and we turn c… Read More
2024-01-05 15:11
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As a deeply spiritual person, I crave emotional closeness in my relationships. I want to connect with people on the level of the soul. To be completely ope… Read More
2024-01-05 14:43
Affirmations: I am centered in my heart. I am aligned to my highest good and the flow of the universe.
As you center yourself within your heart, you begin to find a sense of calm and peace… Read More
2024-01-04 18:18
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This year didn't just break my heart, it broke my soul, my life and my mind along with it. I don't think I have ever spent so much time in bed… Read More
2024-01-04 17:38
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When you receive the Three of Swords in a reading, it is indicative of heartbreak, emotional pain and loss. Likely, this came out of the blue, making it fe… Read More
2024-01-03 12:50
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When you see the Ten of Swords in a reading, it is a signal that a period of your life has come to an end. This could be the end of a job or a relationsh… Read More
2024-01-02 15:28
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If you grew up as the child of a narcissist, it is quite common for them to cast you into a certain role within the family that you can't escape no matte… Read More
2024-01-01 18:55
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We have a tendency to forget that the things we build in life are fragile, and often not meant to stand the test of time. Everything we build for ourse… Read More
2024-01-01 17:44
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Whenever you get a page in a tarot reading, it indicates the beginning of a new path in life. The Page of Swords represents new ideas, curiosity, thirst… Read More
2023-12-31 19:01
As the end of the year approaches, we take stock of everything that has happened, where our roads have led us, our accomplishments and our failings. Many people post the highlight reels of… Read More
2023-12-31 18:47
Sometimes, our road forward may seem unclear. We aren't sure what we want to achieve, or what we want to be moving forward. When there are too many paths to choose from, it can seem deeply… Read More
2023-12-31 17:43
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The Chariot is a very positive card to receive in a tarot reading. It represents strength, willpower and determination that will lead to your eventual… Read More
2023-12-30 18:00
The idea of setting New Year's Resolutions can be stressful for anyone, but even more so if you are struggling with your mental health. It may feel like one more tradition that you don't ha… Read More
2023-12-29 16:48
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Psychic energies in the world are shifting, and more people are becoming aware of the flow of energy that exists all around us. There are young Starseeds, amon… Read More
2023-12-29 16:24
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When you receive the Strength card in a reading, it represents inner strength, determination and power. This is a sign that you have an immense well o… Read More
2023-12-28 17:09
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In the Tarot, the Empress card represents love, fertility, beauty and grace. Receiving this card in a reading is like receiving a gentle hug from your moth… Read More
2023-12-28 16:34
Do you love writing, and want to start sharing your thoughts online (like I do here!) but don't know where to get started? Well, it is easier than you think.
If you are on the fence about… Read More
2023-12-27 17:19
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If you grew up with a narcissistic mother, there are some symptoms that you may display as an adult because of this. You may suffer from anxiety, depressi… Read More
2023-12-26 16:22
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In the Tarot, the Emperor represents a fatherly figure who provides for and guides the family. Whether you are male or female, you are taking on a lead… Read More
2023-12-26 15:51
Are you in a relationship, or looking for love? In our society, looking for love has become a million dollar industry. There are dating apps, dating shows on TV, and magazines and books th… Read More
2023-12-25 16:40
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In the Tarot, the 9 of Pentacles represents an abundant life that you have worked hard to attain. You are beginning to see the fruits of your labor appear… Read More
2023-12-24 19:28
It's Christmas Eve, and spending the day with kids lets you really see the magic of Christmas. Kids are full of anticipation, waiting for Santa, to see what will be in their stockings and u… Read More
2023-12-23 17:53
Being accepted by others begins with accepting ourselves as we are. When we are able to present our true faces to the world, then we allow ourselves to be truly accepted by others, flaws an… Read More
2023-12-22 22:52
Are you one of those people that puts off Christmas shopping until the last minute? Or, remembers that there are relatives attending the Christmas dinner that you didn't know were invited?… Read More
2023-12-22 19:00
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In the Tarot, Temperance represents patience, balance and moderation in life. When you receive this card in a reading, it is telling you to take thin… Read More
2023-12-21 18:38
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When you get the 10 of Wands Reversed in a reading, it is a symbol that you have been carrying a heavy load all by yourself for quite a long time. For wh… Read More
2023-12-20 17:30
After a year of blogging, I have tried a bunch of different software that has been recommended to me by other bloggers. Here are my favorites.
Wix HostingI know that most bloggers swear by u… Read More
2023-12-19 07:24
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When your parent is a narcissist, they tend to assign roles to their children. Growing up with a narcissistic mother myself, I felt this from a very young age. I… Read More
2023-12-16 08:02
When I started blogging in April of 2021 on Millenial Mom, I had the goal to make it to the 6-month mark, since that is when a lot of bloggers give up. If you are starting a blog yourself… Read More
2023-12-15 07:18
Living as your authentic self is hard. But not as hard as being fake.
For some of us growing up, we felt like it was never really safe to be ourselves. We felt like outcasts, like we were u… Read More
2023-12-14 08:00
If you have been following my blog lately, you have probably noticed that I am getting back into reading Tarot cards. This is a way to bring messages from the universe and your higher self… Read More
2023-12-14 07:52
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Today's tarot card is the Three of Wands. When you receive this card in a reading, it indicates that you have been doing quite a bit of long-range plannin… Read More
2023-12-13 09:08
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Everything in our world is made up of energy. We learn this both through scientific methods like quantum physics, and through esoteric traditions like… Read More
2023-12-12 14:21
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The World is a very auspicious card to receive in a reading. It symbolizes fulfillment, achievement and completion of a cycle. Likely you hace had a succ… Read More
2023-12-11 10:16
They say it takes a village to raise a child, but if you grow up in a family of narcissists, you probably don't know what that feels like. You didn't grow up with healthy adult role models… Read More
2023-12-10 06:44
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When you are a mentally ill mom, you may feel a lot of guilt and shame about the way you feel your motherhood is suffering. You might feel like your child is missing o… Read More
2023-12-10 04:38
Sunday Affirmations: I honor my today and my health. I take time for rest and self-care.
Take some time to tune in to your body and its needs. Your body will let you know how to best care f… Read More
2023-12-07 08:25
Today's tarot card is the 10 of Wands. This card shows a man carrying a huge load of sticks towards a small village. When you see this card appear, it is an indication that you have been c… Read More
2023-12-06 07:36
Today's tarot card is the Seven of Wands. I pulled from my Herbal Tarot deck, and the associated herb is Wild Ginger.
When the Seven of Wands appears in a reading, it indicates that you ha… Read More
2023-12-05 12:03
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Usually when I do my daily tarot readings, I just pull one card. But today when I went to pull a card, these two jumped out of the deck.
I have written a… Read More
2023-12-04 10:47
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If you come from a family of narcissists or have otherwise toxic family members, the guilt trips start early. Probably right after Halloween. At least that… Read More
2023-12-01 07:39
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When you look at the news today, there are daily updates about the Israel-Hamas War. If you look at the historical context, you will realize that this co… Read More
2023-11-30 08:49
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Do you believe in Twin Flames? It can be enticing to believe that you have a perfect mate out there in the world, someone who is your perfect match, a mirror of… Read More
2023-11-29 08:47
The last couple of days, I haven't posted a new Tarot reading, because I keep getting the same cards repeating. When this happens, it is a sign to absorb the message from the cards throughl… Read More
2023-11-29 07:58
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If you are a new blogger just starting out, you are probably looking for ways to bring more traffic to your site. You can share on social media, but you also will want t… Read More
2023-11-28 06:21
This morning at 6am, I was staring at the coffee pot, thinking about why I do the things I do every morning. I had already been up for an hour, done my yoga and journaling like I do every d… Read More
2023-11-27 10:33
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Not everyone is lucky enough to grow up in a happy family, where holidays are all sweetness and light. If you grew up in an abusive home, holidays probably… Read More
2023-11-26 10:16
With the holiday season getting under way, many of us are busier than usual. This can be especially true for moms and other care givers. Although you are busy this time of year, it is impo… Read More
2023-11-25 06:01
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In a tarot reading, the Four of Cups indicates that there are opportunities being offered to you, but right now you are saying no to them. This can be fo… Read More
2023-11-25 05:29
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November 2023 is Homeless Youth Awareness Month, during this time, we try to raise awareness about the issues facing homeless youth. In general, there are… Read More
2023-11-24 07:19
If you suffer from a mental illness, you probably already know that getting therapy is one of the most important steps you can take for healing. But what if you can't find a therapist? Or… Read More
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