Handling Divorce Divorce is not an easy decision, but if you have taken it then stick with it. Divorce will make you go through a range of emotions including confusion, anger, fear, sadness, hatred, anxiety and depression. During these times you will need to stay strong and search for the best family lawyers. When you are going through a divorce, there are a number of do’s and don’ts that you should follow that are for your own betterment. Don’ts of Divorce Do not drag your children in your divorce using them as a weapon against your partner. They are little and they need love and support and should not be used to negotiate the divorce settlement. The divorce is between you and spouse, dragging them in between will cause emotional instability in their minds and they might blame themselves. Do not vent out your frustrations and feelings to your children. Their little minds cannot handle the stress. They are not a gateway for your frustrations. Do not restrict the child and spouse support expenses at all. Do not take your divorce issues to social media platforms. Remember these things can be used against you by your spouse even after the court hearing is finished. Don’t ask your children to choose sides, this could greatly affect their mental health and they hold each of you in importance and cannot choose one. Don’t put your spouse down in front of your children and don’t even disrespect or say bad words about them in your child’s presence. You do not want to destroy their future. You will be sending the wrong idea to your children and it will come back to you someday. Do not say anything. Don’t ask for more than the required expenses of you and your child. Greediness will cause (more…)