I have compiled a short list of Sexual tips that I can virtually guarantee anyone that uses them will experience success in their love life. There are many books that are dedicated and devoted to the topic of male and female sexuality. This article was written to help men and women get passed the misconceptions that they have grown up hearing most of their lives. Just know, that there are ways of doing things right and there are ways of doing things wrong. I know that you would want to be one of the people that to do things right, so take good notes.
T #1. Food for thought - Once a single man or woman has decided that he or she wants to take the relationship to the next level by sleeping with you and once you and your partner have perceived that fact., then it will be up to the two of you to pick the appropriate time, place, and mood for your first sexual encounter. You will want to pick the perfect time and place so the both of you will remember and cherish it.
T #2. Just like everything else, it is important to lead each other through the sexual experience Gently, but firmly. You will want to communicate with one another to show each other where your hot spots are and let one another know what you want the other person to do and when to do it. Make sure through the entire experience that you keep moving from one activity to the next. Never continue one activity so long that it interrupts the building of sexual excitement towards intercourse itself.
T #3. The most difficult thing for most men and women is to have the patience to lead each other through foreplay without giving in to their own sexual desires and enter into intercourse too soon. The emotional and sexual pleasure for both the man and woman can be greatly increased by taking the time to bring each other to the maximum level of arousal before intercourse begins.
T #4. During foreplay it is important that the two of you are changing activities. You will want to move up and down each other's body from their head to their toes. You will also want to change positions and activities before the old one becomes boring.
T #5. The most effective thing partners can do to increase sexual pleasure between each other would be to build anticipation. You can literally tempt a person with the anticipation of intercourse during foreplay. Conversely, it is important that both peoples sexual desire continues to build, never letting the excitement of the experience escape the two of you.
T #6. It is important to remember that single men and women enjoy the feeling they get from having good sex as much as they enjoy the sex itself. Men and women alike want to feel loved, they both want to be touched and held. You must be aware of the desires of men and women are the same. They both seek sexual fulfillment. Keep in mind that if you can keep your partner sexually stimulated their sexual satisfaction will be heightened.
T #7. Imagination is the thing that separates a great lover from a bell-boy. You should always change up your sexual routine and the order you perform them. You will always want to change up the location, the positions, and the time you make love. Never let yourself become predictable in regard to your sexual activity. Surprise your partner with spontaneity.
T #8. Making love to a single man or woman at different locations can be very exciting to for both parties. This means places different from the bedroom, may it be the shower, the bath tub, the kitchen, in front of a fireplace, on top of a mountain, or at a friend's party in the bathroom. Making love somewhere different, especially if there is danger of being caught or a taboo involved, will excite and stimulate both genders. The both of you will remember making love in the hot tub long after you have forgotten the 80 times you made love in the bed.
T #9. Educate yourself in the art of giving a body massage and have a scented massage oil handy. Instead of rolling over and going to sleep, get out the massage oil and elevate your sexual performance above that of any other lover your partner has ever been with. If done properly, you will have your partner screaming for round two.
T #10. Nowadays, men and women are much more open to exploring sexual taboos than you think. Taboos include oral sex, use of sexual toys, and masturbation. All of these activities may be thought of as being kinky but if every sexual activity is done with the underlying motive of pleasing both men and women, then they will not be seen as being abusive or kinky. They will be seen as being exciting and sensual.
T #11. Make love with the lights on so the two of you can see things that you may never have seen before.
T #12. You may not be the first lover of his or her life, but there may be lots of sexual activities that the two of you will remember as being special if you are the first person they see ejaculate, or masturbate, or had oral sex with.
T #13. Denying your partner sex can blow up in your face. If you are going to deny your partner sex you better be absolutely sure that you are the best lover that he or she has ever had, or you can be assured that they will be looking somewhere else for sex with someone else in the near future.
T #14. Don't forget that each time you make love to your partner that you have an opportunity for practice. Practice different positions and activities and observe each other's reaction and level of pleasure they exhibit. Your main goal should be to bring each other to full orgasm over and over again.
T #15. You will want to take off each other's clothes when making love. Men and women alike, both love it when someone else removes their clothes. The sensation of not being in control can heighten any situation before making love. Make sure you remove the other person's clothing slowly and gently, using tenderness.
T # 16. Light a candle before making love. A candle is the perfect lighting for love-making. It creates a romantic atmosphere and makes everyone involved feel sexier and more relaxed.
T # 17. Last but not least - Be the best you can be sexually. Single men and women want to be satisfied sexually by a good lover. If you are not good in bed your partner may lose interest in you and find someone else who can satisfy their wants, needs, and desires. If you are a good lover and bring your partner to multiple orgasms they will be begging you to have sex with them again and again. Your partner will not be able to get enough of you!